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September 2019

Engagement ring size... Better too big or too small?

Brian, on May 17, 2019 at 10:40 AM

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I'm looking for an engagement ring for my soon-to-be fiance. My question is, if I estimate her ring size, is it better to estimate a little bigger or a little smaller (in terms of the practicality of re-sizing)? I have secretly tried to match her finger size with my hand, and her ring finger seems...

I'm looking for an engagement ring for my soon-to-be fiance. My question is, if I estimate her ring size, is it better to estimate a little bigger or a little smaller (in terms of the practicality of re-sizing)?

I have secretly tried to match her finger size with my hand, and her ring finger seems to roughly coincide with the size of my pinky. She is tall (about 5'9") and her hands are only slightly smaller than mine.

I wanted to avoid actually measuring her finger as I'd like the proposal to be a bit of a surprise, even though we have talked about our future plans and she is most certainly "all-in".

When I use a ring sizer that you can print out (yes, printed at exactly 100% and double-checked for proper size), size 7 seems rather small when I use it on my pinky. I thought 7 was considered sort of big. I was thinking about getting her a 9 just to be on the safe side, thinking that it's easier to make a ring smaller than it is to make it larger.

Can anyone help to clarify this for me? I know it's easier to just go shopping with her, but we both would rather it be a bit of a surprise. Thanks much!

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  • Macee
    Dedicated October 2019
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    Better to go bigger, I don't wear rings and my fiance did pretty good. He went with the standard size and they had the metal resizer on it. I'm a 5.25 ring size. They told him at the jeweler better to go bigger than too small.

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  • Kelsey
    Dedicated September 2019
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    I second talking to her family/friends, and then I would also consider speaking to the jeweler when you pick out a ring. As some have said, the size you want to buy is going to be dependent on the style - some are easier to resize than others, and some rings can't be resized at all (depending on the material).

    I'd never heard the shoe size correlation, but....I wear a 7 in shoes, and my ring is a 7.5 (I probably should have gone with the 7, but my fingers swell a lot when it's hot out, so a 7 made me nervous). Might be a good place to start, especially if you pick a ring that's relatively easy to resize.

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  • Kimberly
    Devoted September 2020
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    Definitely go bigger, my ring is about a half size too big but I just wear a ring adjuster that I got from amazon. Depending on how warm or cold it is my fingers fluctuate a lot. I am glad he got a half size bigger as it doesn't feel too small or large. I have room to work with once I add my wedding band!

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  • Jennifer
    VIP October 2021
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    Better to be a bit too large. If one of the clerks is similar in size have her tell you her ring size....
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  • B
    September 2019
    Brian ·
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    Thank you everybody. I decided to go with a 7.5 and I will hope for the best. I will even have a ring adjuster on hand, although it looks like even that can be a bit of a guess as I see several different types and sizes of those.

    I greatly appreciate all your input. Thanks for taking the time out of your day to reply!

    Brian

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    Expert October 2019
    Sara ·
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    Size 7 is pretty average, but you’re always safer to buy a larger ring and have it sized down, which is way easier and potentially cheaper since you’re not adding material to the band. On amazon I found these rubber coils that you can put on a larger ring to temporarily keep it on your finger. Does she have any rings that she wears that you can use as a size reference?
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  • D
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    Is there any other rings at home they wear?Typically rings come in size 6 as a standard. Generally speaking jewerly stores will have to size the ring unless they ordered multiple sizes ahead of time. Be prepared to wait up to 2 weeks in extreme circumstances for the ring to come back. I'd try an 8 to start with. Or 8.5 Shoe size and ring size don't match all the time. Different styles of shoes may change the size you need so...
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  • Jeanelle
    Super September 2018
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    Wow I never heard this about shoe and ring size!
    I wear size 7.5 -8 shoes and my ring size is 3.5!

    Your fiance is smart! I am a light sleeper so this would have never worked on me. He stole my rings I wear on a normal basis instead 🤣

    Agree with going bigger and resizing!
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  • RASHEEDA
    Dedicated August 2019
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    We order my fh size just right but mine 1 size up since im the one with the stubby fingers lol
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