Emergency Surgery 2 months before the wedding! Vent

Booo for surgery sorry honey but things happen for a reason! Obviously! Yay for an amazing FH!!!!! Hope you feel better soon!

Thanks. I am really hoping that I will be all healed up by the time the wedding comes around.

Oh I am so sorry for you having to have surgery but how very sweet of your FH! He gets all 10's. It is really nice to have a man that you know will be there for you no matter what!

So sorry to hear about the surgery but glad to hear you are doing ok... your fh is a wonderful man. mine would stay til bed time then go home and sleep in his bed( its hard for him to sleep anywhere he is 6'2" so even our queen sucks for him)

I hope you feel better soon! Give yourself time to recover and take a break from wedding stuff. I would suggest you reschedule your fitting, you've got time to get it done before the wedding still, and even if your surgery was laparscopic and you're feeling ok overall, you are still healing inside so you don't want to be squishing everything around with a corset.

This might sound strange, but I was going to say "Yay that it happened NOW instead of CLOSER to your wedding!" We had a bride that had her gallbladder removed 3 weeks before her wedding, and she was severely sick for 2 months before that. It made planning her wedding very difficult! I felt SO bad for her! She was bright, shining, and pretty much healed by the time her wedding came around.

Here's to a quick and easy healing!

Oh you will definitely be fine by the wedding! my friend just had hers out 2 weeks ago, and she's back to normal...and going camping this weekend!

Too bad on the surgery but YAY for such a great FH! Its moments like those right?

Thanks everyone for the kind words. I am already starting to feel a bit better but obviously still not great. The seamstress was called and canceled and my FH snuck out of the house this morning to fill the fridge with foods that I can eat. He is currently sleeping on the couch since he is unable to sleep in the bed while it is reclined. Every 4 hours he wakes up and reminds me to take my medicines. He truly is amazing. I don't think I would have made it through all of this if it wasn't for him. As for the surgery while it does suck I just keep thinking this could have happened when we were in Italy and then I would have been really screwed.

Cheeres for awesome FH! He deserves it! I also wish you a speedy recovery.

Cheers*

Hope your full recovery is a speedy one so you can get your gown fitting done, and so you can truly enjoy your wedding day. Kudos to your future hubby for staying by your side!!

Well today I had an appointment with financial and my post op surgeon and the news is not great. My hospital bill not including the surgery is $31K. I will get the bill for the surgery itself on Monday. When we talked to them about getting approved for government financial aid they said we will most likely be denied because even though we aren't married and don't technically live together I went ahead and added him to the checking account so we could cash wedding checks. Well according to financial doesn't matter if we are or not that makes us MARRIED! ACK!! So now I am gonna try and explain to county the reason for adding him to my bank account and see if they will approve my claim.

OMG I'm so sorry to hear that!!! I hope they do approve your claim.

I know I'm in the middle of trying to get Medi-cal so I can get my surgery done

I just keeping saying to myself, "Thank goodness the wedding is already paid for!" Otherwise I would be melting down at this news.

B/c of a common law marriage? how long have you been sharing the bank account? Most states have a minimum of 6 months to a year before you are considered common law married...

We have been sharing the bank account for 4 months. Its not a common law marriage but they are going to treat us as married because we have shared assets.