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Beginner November 2010

Early Afternoon Wedding - Alcohol/Dancing?

Natasha, on September 29, 2010 at 4:11 PM Posted in Planning 0 14

I will be getting married in Vero Beach, FL (hotel on the ocean) in November. The ceremony (outdoor) is at 10 am, followed by pictures and light appetizers. The reception (indoor) will be from 11:30 - 2 at the same venue. Right now, I am thinking about serving lunch since I think it goes better with wedding cake than breakfast/brunch options. My main questions are about alcohol and dancing. Should we have alcohol at this time of day or do you think we can get by with a mimosa toast only? If alcohol is needed, should it just be beer & wine only? Also, that early in the day, should we hire a DJ/musician? I'm not big on dancing but would at least like to have the traditional bride/groom dance. If the reception does not include dancing, what other activities can we have? Any suggestions would be most appreciated! I'm so confused and have less than two months to go.

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Latest activity by Natasha, on September 30, 2010 at 2:15 PM
  • Emilie  Staats Hilsenrath
    Emilie Staats Hilsenrath ·
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    I highly recommend serving alcohol if you want a festive and memorable occasion. Weddings without them just are not the same. You could do a mimosa and bloody mary station or keep it simple with wine and beer. Music is always fun at a wedding so if you can afford it in your budget, do it! A one-man guitar or a DJ are cheaper than hiring a band. You only get married once- congrats :-)

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  • Emilie  Staats Hilsenrath
    Emilie Staats Hilsenrath ·
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    If dancing is not an option you could have beach games like sand bag toss, paddle ball, etc.

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  • N
    Beginner November 2010
    Natasha ·
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    Thanks so much for the suggestions, Emilie =)

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  • Sharlean
    Devoted October 2010
    Sharlean ·
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    Yes I would at least have a beer/wine bar available. I also agree maybe having an extra station of Bloody Mary's or Bellini's would be nice. I think it's okay to have dancing in the afternoon.

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  • Shannon S.
    Master March 2011
    Shannon S. ·
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    It depends on what sort of vibe you're going for. If you're looking for low-key, I agree with the suggestion to have games like croquet available. If you want more of a party vibe, then you don't want folks scattering off to play games.

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  • N
    Beginner November 2010
    Natasha ·
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    Thanks, Sharlean. I like the idea of Bloody Mary/Bellini station. As far as a vibe, my fiance is into soft jazz / lounge music and wanta a more low-key vibe. I'm not sure how games or dancing fits into that but I am definitely open to suggestions. I personally like the party vibe with dancing - just wasn't sure if that could be achieved in a daytime wedding with a mixed group of ages.

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  • Dan Paulish
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    Natasha - I've often noticed that the mood for weddings at that time of day are set by the bride and groom. If you and your husband want to party, dance, and drink, your guests will be happy to join you. Also, with the earlier time, it's more likely that your guests will stay to the end if you have some fun activities planned for them.

    Dan

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  • october bride
    VIP October 2010
    october bride ·
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    I think you should still have a dj or a band, you need something for the background at least even if there is no dancing, but i think people will still dance in the afternoon. i know i would

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  • *~* Soon to be Mrs. Murphey *~*
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    I say bring on the drinks! I know we wont have an open bar or anything but we will have beer and wine

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    Soon2BMrsA ·
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    My wedding is going to be at 11am, and reception at 1:30 (cocktails in between). We are only going to serve wine and our main entertainment is a DJ. People might stay longer and have more fun if its earlier in the day.

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  • Marirosa Anderson
    Marirosa Anderson ·
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    I had an early morning wedding when I got married and we had wine and beer but no hard liquor...and it worked out nicely.... good luck!

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  • Lady Bell S-T-B!!!!
    Devoted October 2010
    Lady Bell S-T-B!!!! ·
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    Getting married at noon and reception at 1pm. Call me cheap but I do not care.... we will not supply alcohol. I have told everyone if they want alcohol they are more than welcome to bring their own. I have a few people who are attending that are recovering alcoholics and a couple that NEED AA really bad. LOL As for dancing, we are not big dancers but I am planning to have prerecorded list of songs playing in the background through their sound system and then some games and activities. It may not be the norm but it will just have to work itself out.

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  • Stacey Leigh
    Expert November 2010
    Stacey Leigh ·
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    I think bloody mary's, mimosas, and bellinis sound great! I don't think it is necessary or expected for you to have more than that! Yum. I love bellinis.

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  • N
    Beginner November 2010
    Natasha ·
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    Thank you so much for all the responses. We are going to hire a DJ who plays jazzy/lounge background music while we are eating and more upbeat music for dancing and all the traditional dances/activities. As for alcohol, I think we will be going with beer and wine plus mimosas. Thanks again.

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