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kaybeearr
Dedicated December 2017

Dry Wedding

kaybeearr, on May 10, 2017 at 10:37 AM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 55

We are having a dry wedding. We are LDS aka Mormon and almost everyone invited knows. We are having our reception at our church and can not have alcohol or smoking there. We feel it's tacky to place Dry Wedding on the invite. But some think we should. Others think we should move the reception to...

We are having a dry wedding. We are LDS aka Mormon and almost everyone invited knows. We are having our reception at our church and can not have alcohol or smoking there. We feel it's tacky to place Dry Wedding on the invite. But some think we should. Others think we should move the reception to accommodate drinkers. We are paying for our wedding. We think maybe placing signs around the outside of the reception that say "no drinking or smoking" and telling. Advice? Has anyone else has a dry Wedding?

UPDATE: The church hall is free including chairs and tables. And church's hall anyone can enter for people who don't get mormon weddings.

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  • Brenda
    Super September 2017
    Brenda ·
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    Be prepared for people to sneak in their own booze and get drunk in an ugly way...

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  • JDSquared
    VIP August 2017
    JDSquared ·
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    I think you should change the venue, but at the end of the day, it's your wedding and you're gonna do what you want.

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  • Swin.
    Master June 2016
    Swin. ·
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    Lol Brenda no one sneaks booze into an LDS church. You obviously have never been to an LDS reception. It's much different than any other kind.

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  • kaybeearr
    Dedicated December 2017
    kaybeearr ·
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    Brenda if someone sneaks it in obviously they aren't my friend. I know my friends and they know me. Hence why they are my wedding guests I'm not inviting strangers.

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  • Staceyyyyyyy
    Dedicated July 2017
    Staceyyyyyyy ·
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    We're having a dry wedding for religious beliefs. Also, we're having an afternoon wedding and reception at the church, so alcohol wasn't an option.

    I think what you are doing is fine!

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  • Miami2NorthernVA
    Master November 2017
    Miami2NorthernVA ·
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    I think you are fine. I am an atheist so I don't understand the whole religion thing, but it sounds like the people you are inviting are also religious or at least know you well enough to understand your beliefs and not have an issue with this.

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  • Chivy
    VIP September 2018
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    Lmao@ changing her venue to provide alcohol for 10 people. That's ridiculous.

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  • Teresa
    Devoted July 2018
    Teresa ·
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    We are also doing a dry wedding at our ward after the Temple ceremony. Our guest list is 1/2 and 1/2 on LDS faith. Those who aren't LDS will be told after invites go out that it is a dry wedding, though they all pretty much know anyways as they know we are LDS and having it at a church.

    I see nothing wrong with it.

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  • J. Clo
    Master May 2018
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    I agree with Elphaba

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  • Victoria A
    Expert October 2017
    Victoria A ·
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    Because of the location in your church I think it's perfectly acceptable to have a dry wedding. And your guests should respect your religion and the rules of the venue you have chosen.

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  • IronMaiden
    Expert May 2018
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    One of my best friends had a Mormon wedding and it was dry. I didn't know until I got there but it didn't bother me since it was out of respect for their religious beliefs and not because they just didn't want to pay to provide alcohol for their guests.

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  • MrsMitch
    Master August 2017
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    Seriously, people are on here telling you to change your venue after you just stated you and your FH are LDS? Ridiculous. If people need to drink that bad have a drink before hand or after or seek treatment if that's too hard! And I'm a drinker!!

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  • MrsMitch
    Master August 2017
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    @chivy mind blowing ridiculousness

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  • MrsMitch
    Master August 2017
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    @Kelly T your comment is prob gonna be flagged but I so agree

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  • Jacky
    Master June 2017
    Jacky ·
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    I'm one to usually be against dry weddings, but I don't think some of you understand what type of wedding this is. Members of LDS do not condone alcohol, and this is going to take place in a Mormon church. Dry weddings do suck, but not when it's at a church and they don't drink. It's obviously not going to be a get crazy and party type of wedding. The 10 guests who do drink can go without a drink for a few hours. OP, don't change your plans because a few people who drink and are not Mormon tell you to find somewhere else. ETA: words.

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