Tina
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Dresses not ordered

Tina, on October 17, 2019 at 10:55 AM Posted in Community Conversations 0 28
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If u have a deadline for ur Bridesmaids to have there dress by and some of them dont what would u do???

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  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    I wouldn't do anything. Either they have the dress on the wedding day and they can stand as a bridesmaid, or they don't have the dress and they can sit as a guest. I don't have time to keep tabs on adults.

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  • A
    Dedicated May 2020
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    Ask they why the don't have it and remind them to order it.

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  • Yoice
    VIP March 2019
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    I think contact them and see why haven’t they order the dress yet. I didn’t have issue with mine because they bought their own dresses but with the guys I gave them all a different deadline than the actual deadline. It was like a week before to avoid the stress. I say call them and she’s what’s going on?
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  • Tina
    Dedicated April 2021
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    I agree with it. There deadline is by the end of this month wedding is in april 2020🤷‍♀️
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  • Tina
    Dedicated April 2021
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    In if u have done that and they keep saying ima do by this time and dont. Mind you it's been 8months ago since they all knew deadline is end of this month
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  • Jasmine
    Rockstar August 2020
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    I would figure out why it hasn't been ordered yet. If it's a financial issue, that's one thing. If it's pure laziness, like Caytlyn said, they will end up being a guest. I wouldn't waist my time after that and if they get mad they were knocked off, then that's on them.
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  • Tina
    Dedicated April 2021
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    Yep I totally agree they dont even need to be a guest I feel I dont need the negative energy cause I'm sure it will be.
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  • Tina
    Dedicated April 2021
    Tina ·
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    🤦‍♀️🙃 ok thanks
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  • Amanda
    Dedicated June 2020
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    Yesss I agree with you completely
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  • Tina
    Dedicated April 2021
    Tina ·
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    In definitely asked about financial in all say it's not that so I dont understand but thank you guys all of you are so helpful appreciate it
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  • Melle
    Rockstar June 2019
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    I basically told my girls to get it by the wedding aha.
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  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
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    If they didn't have a bridesmaids dress on our wedding day, they wouldn't be in the wedding. Other than that, I let them figure it out. It's early to have a dress for an April 2020 wedding. A few of my girls ordered their dress 3 months before our wedding and they were fine.

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  • LB
    Champion November 2016
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    That's kinda ridiculous. Why do they need to order their dresses 6 months in advance?

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  • Cristy
    Rockstar May 2020
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    It's still more than enough time to order a dress for an April 2020 wedding. They don't really need 6 months. I'm just saying this to try to relieve some of your stress. If the problem isn't financial, then you just need to tell them they need to order the dress, or they can come to the wedding as a guest--or not at all, if that's what you decide.

    But I agree with Caytlyn, you don't really have time to chase after adults. If they can't handle it, they will miss out.

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  • Tina
    Dedicated April 2021
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    Ok thank you
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  • Chandra
    Master May 2019
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    Agreed. Plenty of people have said their girls have ordered 6 weeks before and had zero issues. What if they get pregnant or gain weight between now and the wedding?
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  • Tina
    Dedicated April 2021
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    Idk its stressful to me I'm trying to keep her from getting stressed out. Thank you I will definitely mention this it means so much
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  • Tina
    Dedicated April 2021
    Tina ·
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    Ok in yes I agree in thank you for the info it helps me so much and yess adults is correct
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  • Tina
    Dedicated April 2021
    Tina ·
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    Ok I will definitely mention this and see if it can ease her bridezillaness just a tab.
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  • Catherine
    Super November 2019
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    Well i would keep giving them gentle reminders and if they do it then great. if they don't - then i guess they are no longer a bridesmaid. You have more than enough things on your list to do for your big day. they should be able to order their dress on time. they knew this was a part of being in the party.

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