Dresses not ordered

I wouldn't do anything. Either they have the dress on the wedding day and they can stand as a bridesmaid, or they don't have the dress and they can sit as a guest. I don't have time to keep tabs on adults.

Ask they why the don't have it and remind them to order it.

I think contact them and see why haven’t they order the dress yet. I didn’t have issue with mine because they bought their own dresses but with the guys I gave them all a different deadline than the actual deadline. It was like a week before to avoid the stress. I say call them and she’s what’s going on?

View Quoted Comment I agree with it. There deadline is by the end of this month wedding is in april 2020🤷‍♀️

View Quoted Comment In if u have done that and they keep saying ima do by this time and dont. Mind you it's been 8months ago since they all knew deadline is end of this month

I would figure out why it hasn't been ordered yet. If it's a financial issue, that's one thing. If it's pure laziness, like Caytlyn said, they will end up being a guest. I wouldn't waist my time after that and if they get mad they were knocked off, then that's on them.

View Quoted Comment Yep I totally agree they dont even need to be a guest I feel I dont need the negative energy cause I'm sure it will be.

View Quoted Comment 🤦‍♀️🙃 ok thanks

View Quoted Comment Yesss I agree with you completely

View Quoted Comment In definitely asked about financial in all say it's not that so I dont understand but thank you guys all of you are so helpful appreciate it

I basically told my girls to get it by the wedding aha.

If they didn't have a bridesmaids dress on our wedding day, they wouldn't be in the wedding. Other than that, I let them figure it out. It's early to have a dress for an April 2020 wedding. A few of my girls ordered their dress 3 months before our wedding and they were fine.

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That's kinda ridiculous. Why do they need to order their dresses 6 months in advance?

It's still more than enough time to order a dress for an April 2020 wedding. They don't really need 6 months. I'm just saying this to try to relieve some of your stress. If the problem isn't financial, then you just need to tell them they need to order the dress, or they can come to the wedding as a guest--or not at all, if that's what you decide.

But I agree with Caytlyn, you don't really have time to chase after adults. If they can't handle it, they will miss out.

View Quoted Comment Ok thank you

View Quoted Comment Agreed. Plenty of people have said their girls have ordered 6 weeks before and had zero issues. What if they get pregnant or gain weight between now and the wedding?

View Quoted Comment Idk its stressful to me I'm trying to keep her from getting stressed out. Thank you I will definitely mention this it means so much

View Quoted Comment Ok in yes I agree in thank you for the info it helps me so much and yess adults is correct

View Quoted Comment Ok I will definitely mention this and see if it can ease her bridezillaness just a tab.

Well i would keep giving them gentle reminders and if they do it then great. if they don't - then i guess they are no longer a bridesmaid. You have more than enough things on your list to do for your big day. they should be able to order their dress on time. they knew this was a part of being in the party.