Yes, we actually went to look together since we thought about eloping before deciding to have a small, intimate ceremony/reception. We've been together for 9 years, and we're getting married the day after our 10 year anniversary. He knows what I'm wearing, and that helped us pick out his suit/attire for him. My dress was $200 and can be altered so I can wear it again for other occasions. ⭐
Absolutely not. I want him to be surprised and he wants to be surprised. When I told him it was pretty, he covered his ears and said “no spoilers” haha. I don’t want him to know what to expect at all ! The only thing he did say was he lives my hair so he doesn’t want a veil to cover it up.