Paying to dance with me...eck..gross. If tacky is so overused there are plenty of other terms such as money hungry, greedy, tasteless, inappropriate, graceless, garish, brassy...I'm sure there are more.
All of my family members have done it. It's actually pretty funny but it's also expected for our family so it's not a big deal. FH and I decided not to do one though, mostly just because it might be awkward for his family.
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No one said cultural = tacky.....I do glass breakings, the Stephana, leis, garlands and tea ceremonies all the time.
It's a huge thing in my culture . I'm not so sure I'm doing it . The way ive seen it work is family members and God Parents are the one who pin money to the bride and groom .
In my fiancé's culture it's a thing so we're doing it. Before that, I had never heard of it. And if it wasn't for it being a cultural thing (he's half Mexican), I wouldn't do it, but they insisted on tradition. So yeah.