I am one if those people that coordinate everything. However I see so many cute thank you cards for my bridal shower. My thank you cards for the wedding match our invites but do my bridal shower cards need to be the same colors and theme. Can you believe this is driving me nuts. I almost feel like if I stray from red black and white I'm throwing things off. I know they are going in the garbage after they read it but....... Did any of you stray from the colors for thank you cards