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Devoted April 2020

Does anyone else feel like this?

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Courtney, on January 22, 2020 at 7:17 PM

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I will preface this by saying I know that no one cares about my wedding day as much as myself and my FH... I know that.

However, I feel like when I text the bridal party that I'm annoying or aggravating some of them. We got a deadline from MW to get everyone fitted for tuxes one month from today for our April 18th wedding. I know this should be my FH's full responsibility, but I still texted all the girls of the guys today and reminded them. I just feel like I annoyed a couple of them by their responses 😕
I'm just not a procrastinator AT ALL and I wish everyone was already fitted even though I know they still have a month to do so! All of my girls have their dresses, but only one has went to see about alterations.
I guess I need to learn to just roll with it and trust that everything is going to fall into place 😬

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Cherry · on January 23, 2020 at 2:10 PM
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I'm in the same boat. We're about 3 weeks away here and one groomsman has not been in contact with us. Don't think he's got his outfit yet. FH says he's on it but I ask every other day and there's been no change. I guess this guy MIGHT show up, he might show up with his family in tow (no RSVPs yet - deadline was a week ago), or he might not come at all? If he does come, I wonder what he'll wear...

To the OP - Wedding planning is stressful and I've learned that I cannot will anyone to do anything they don't want to do. From FH, Mom, bridesmaids, etc., if I say "Jump" I want them to say "How high?" And instead they just move at a snails' pace and ignore me. LOL. I've let it go. The day will happen with or without them. And if anyone shows up wearing something other than what was agreed upon months ago, they shouldn't be surprised when I kindly ask them not to be in the photos.
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