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Just Said Yes July 2017

Do you have to send invites to everyone who got save the dates?

Casey, on May 5, 2017 at 6:12 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 32

I think i k ow the answer to this, but we sent save the dates early in the planning process and were pretty liberal in doing so. However, there are a couple people we havent talked to since sending them (about 7 mths ago). At the same time, weve gotten close with others we would like to add to the...

I think i k ow the answer to this, but we sent save the dates early in the planning process and were pretty liberal in doing so. However, there are a couple people we havent talked to since sending them (about 7 mths ago). At the same time, weve gotten close with others we would like to add to the list but were also more conscious of costs. How bad would it be to not send an invite to someone who got a save the date?

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  • nolalishak
    Master June 2017
    nolalishak ·
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    Yes

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  • Robyn
    Super June 2017
    Robyn ·
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    It's an unfortunate yes. I did them but it was more for the out of town delivery time line. I wanted to know how they took to get there.

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    Expert July 2017
    MissGtoMrsG ·
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    You're supposed to invite them. The ONLY person who didn't get an invite to our wedding after receiving a STD is the estranged wife of one of the groomsmen.

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  • QueSeraSera
    VIP December 2017
    QueSeraSera ·
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    We weren't going to do STDs, but my FMIL wanted them for their retired friends who like to plan vacations in winters and said I should send them to everybody, and that she would pay for them. So we're doing it Smiley smile

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  • MrsMcK
    VIP September 2017
    MrsMcK ·
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    It would be bad. It's basically inviting someone and then saying "lol jk you're not invited".

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  • JDSquared
    VIP August 2017
    JDSquared ·
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    Yes.

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  • New
    VIP May 2017
    New ·
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    Yes, your instincts were right on this!

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    Dedicated October 2017
    Laura ·
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    No-brainer: they need invited Smiley smile

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  • Jamandance
    Dedicated June 2017
    Jamandance ·
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    Yes, absolutely.

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    Master December 2016
    Nancy ·
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    This why I don't like STDs. Too much can happen. If you sent one, you're committed. Just hope this person declines.

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    Devoted December 2018
    Alexis ·
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    You can't just uninvite someone after you already sent them the save the date. You can absolutely invite more who didn't get a save the date. I wouldn't of sent out save the dates that early for this reason. It's usually 6-7 months before

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  • Michelle
    Expert July 2017
    Michelle ·
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    Yes

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