Do you have to send invites to everyone who got save the dates?

You have to! Sorry. I am in the same boat as you but you can't not.

Yes.

Yup you do. A STD technically an invite. You can add people who didn't originally get them, but you can't uninvite anyone who got one

ETA spelling is hard when you're drinking coronas

You cannot uninvite someone who you gave a save the date too

Gotta send them the invite

A STD is a promise that the recipient will be receiving a formal wedding invitation from you closer to your wedding and they should clear their schedules and plan to make the trip to your wedding. It means they are already invited. It's a huge faux pas to not send someone an invitation after sending them a STD. This is why so many users on here recommend that you skip STDs (they lock in your guest list early) or that you only send them to VIPs and OOT guests or only use them if you are having a destination wedding.

It is okay, however, to send wedding invitations to people who did not receive STDs. You can definitely add to your guest list if you have the room in your budget.

We had a similar problem, and it really ended up that the people we hadn't seen declined. So send them, and if they don't decline, you'll enjoy spending some time dancing and drinking!

Yup... they usually say "formal invitation to follow" or something similar on them.

Every time I see these, I am so glad we didn't send STDs. I think you're on the hook for them unfortunately.

Yep, sorry. :/

You have to invite them. I had a similar scenario and they also declined when I invited them.

If you sent them a STD, they should also get a wedding invitation.

You HAVE to invite them. There's a strong possibility they will decline but always plan on everyone you invited to attend. The only time I would say this is okay is if you sent one to your parents and you run out of stamps and say F it because you are throwing in the towel on invitations. lol.

Yes. This is why I hate them.

Yes, a STD=invite. I agree with Celia, I hate STD's. They are more trouble than they're worth.

This is exactly why we didn't send STDs. I wasn't ready to lock in a guest list.

I've been asked at least a dozen times: "ohhh I didn't get a STD, guess I'm not invited * rolls eyes*

Invite them and hope that they decline.

Yes, you do. This is the reason you don't send STDs to everyone.

Yes, that's why it's better to be skimpy with STD. You are stuck. The one exception might be coworkers if they no longer work with you.

Yes... we're in the same boat.

And its making me cringe because I have a family member who we'd like to un invite due too bad behavior/excessive drama.

Thankfully we only sent them to family.