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Do you have nights for “no wedding talk”?

Rebecca, on December 18, 2018 at 11:05 AM Posted in Planning 0 105
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During the craziness of wedding planning, it’s important to step back and enjoy some wedding-free time together. Do you and your fiancé(e) have nights where you ban the wedding talk? Never, always, or sometimes?

Do you find it difficult to limit or is it a much needed break?

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  • Alexandra
    VIP June 2019
    Alexandra ·
    We should probably do this haha but we don’t currently. Sometimes nothing comes up but... most nights it’s wedding central in our house.
  • Jennifer
    Master September 2018
    Jennifer ·

    Not anymore! Thank god, that is over!

  • D
    Super September 2019
    Dana ·
    We dont have a night of no wedding talk but we dont talk about it everyday but most days we do. Just tooooo exciting!!
  • FutureMrsKC
    Master January 2019
    FutureMrsKC ·

    Not really, we just freely talk about it whenever we wanted to. Now that we are so close, every night is wedding talk whether we talk about what we are excited for or who we are excited to see or that we are x amount of days away!

  • Britt Brat
    Expert May 2019
    Britt Brat ·

    My fiance is already super chill and laid back. From the beginning, he's told me to do what I want for the wedding because he would be just as happy going to the courthouse haha. So I am legit having my dream wedding without much push back from him, which is awesome hahaha. The only thing he wanted a say in was the cake flavors and that was it. So we have lots of "free nights", if you will!

  • Angerra
    VIP August 2019
    Angerra ·
    No, we don't. I'm handling most of the planning for the most part. So when we do talk about the wedding, I ask him a question that can be answered quickly, get his advice, or we're just talking about the wedding.
  • Alyssa
    Super July 2019
    Alyssa ·
    We don't have any no wedding nights but we don't really talk about the wedding super often other than mentioning that we are excited.
  • PurdyAikey
    Super January 2019
    PurdyAikey ·

    No rules of no wedding talk. Occasionally when I am stressed he is like you need to take a bath or shower and think about what you are stressed about, but after no wedding stuff/crafts tonight! I do this with him and work too because he will be so stuck on it when he get home that he needs to focus on whats bothering him, and figure it out! Mostly, though I just rant a lot, and he listens and we move on to normal things!

  • M
    Super October 2018
    Michelle ·
    We didn't and it wasn't needed. Our engagement was only 7 months
  • Becca
    Super August 2019
    Becca ·
    We talk about it freely and we both love it he was even bored yesterday and begging me to give him some kind of wedding thing to do haha we are still early on, so there’s not much to give him at the moment, but I love talking wedding stuff with him!
  • S
    Devoted May 2019
    Sarah ·
    We probably should but my mind runs a million miles a minute and can't help but bring up new things. Haha. However we only have 4 months to plan! And luckily he is just as involved in the planning as me
  • Arkilia
    Super October 2020
    Arkilia ·
    We have a couple of nights we don't talk, but we are in the beginning stages so we talk about it often
  • Kenisha
    Champion June 2019
    Kenisha ·
    We have had a few nights where we say no wedding talk.
  • Lynnie
    WeddingWire Administrator October 2016
    Lynnie ·

    Never - but I'm sure he wished we did!!

  • caitie-lyn
    Dedicated January 2020
    caitie-lyn ·

    We don't have nights that are specifically designated to have no wedding talk. Every so often I get stressed and have a burst of talking about it a lot though

  • MrsV1027
    Master October 2018
    MrsV1027 ·

    When we were planning the wedding any wedding talk was 10 minutes top and not very often since it was all inclusive

  • Lacy
    Super December 2018
    Lacy ·
    We did when the wedding was further out (sometimes weeks of not needing to discuss it) but with it being so close now, we talk about it every day.
  • Abby
    VIP March 2019
    Abby ·
    We have nights like that but not on purpose. Some days we just don't have anything wedding related to talk about.
  • Taylor
    Devoted May 2019
    Taylor ·

    No because we both enjoy talking about it! But some days we just go without thinking about the wedding .

  • Rebecca
    Master October 2025
    Rebecca ·
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    Sounds like the perfect, healthy balance!!

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