We have just ordered our stationery (invitations etc) and I am wondering if we actually need to do thank you cards?
Our invitations will all be hand delivered, with about 30% being mailed to those who do not live within a reasonable driving distance from us. We are asking guests to RSVP by contacting us directly instead of returning their RSVP by post because frankly no one really sends mail anymore and it would be burdensome for most of our guests, and I didn't want to spend $100 on return postage that would never be used.
With this in mind, I am wondering if we would need to send out thank you cards? Anyone we would see in person after the wedding we would obviously be thanking for attending, but I feel like its a given that everyone's presence (and if applicable, gift) is appreciated. It's a very old school thing - has anyone else not given thank you cards?