What is the norm these days for the mother of the bride and mother of the groom when it comes to getting ready on the day of? Do they typically join the bride and wedding party for hair, makeup, and visiting before the ceremony?
Part of my reasoning for asking is that I want my mom to feel included. I think I could set her up in a room with her sisters to all hang out and have her join us towards the end and she would be happy with that.
FMIL is another story....she is cordial enough but tends to speak without thinking For example, when we showed her the video of FH and me getting engaged, her only comment was "your hair is in your face". I'm concerned that she will stress me out the day of since I will be on edge with her around. When her daughter got married, FMIL was heavily involved and I think she expects that this time around. Is there a polite way to tell her I don't want her there in the morning or do I try to make the best of things and ignore any snide comments?
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