Do I really need a flower girl & ring bearer

Whatever makes you happy!

Whats MOH ?

We had my grandma and grandpa as flower girl and ring bearer. We don't like children and had a children-free wedding so it was fun having my grandparents as our flower girl and ring bearer.

Nope you don't need them. It is completely up to you. Plenty of people don't have them. It's a personal choice.

Keep it simple, if you didn't plan on having them then let it be.

No one needs a flower girl or ring bearer. You already will have 8 of you in front of 50 guests.

I'm not having a ring bearer but I am having a flower girl. Honestly they aren't really an important part of the wedding. I think people just get stuck on traditions. If you don't have any kiddos in mind I wouldn't stress about it!

You can skip them. I only had a ring bearer because I had a young male family member I wanted to include. Otherwise I would have skipped both.

I am skipping the ring bearer because the only little boys on either side of my family (no young children on FH's side yet) will be two and I have yet to meet either of them. The cousin who will be my flower girl will be six and knows me and my FH so we decided to have a flower girl.

It's whatever you want. We're not having either in our wedding party. No offense to anyone, but I personally hate children in the bridal party. They are too unpredictable, which is why we aren't having them.

This is our first marriage and we aren't having them. We do have kids who could do it, but we want our party to be simple. We are only having a Best Man and Matron of Honour.

We're skipping both the flower girl and ring bearer. No kids in or at the wedding.

Last wedding I went to the flower girl threw a tantrum in the middle of walking down the aisle.

For that reason- I'm skipping them.

If you don't want one, you don't really need them. My FH and I aren't doing a flower girl and plan for our ring bearer to be our fur-child who'll be walked by my brother (if he accepts and who will be 17 at that time). But if our venue will not allow our dog to be there then we won't have one.

I'm not having either a ring bearer or flower girl. Do whatever makes you happy.

It's up to you. No rules. 2nd wedding for both here. Our sides don't match, and we're having two flower girls, my nieces ages 4 and 5, and our ring bearer will be FH's grandson, only 8 months old. Neither of us had FG or RB in our first weddings, so thought it would be a nice addition to this one. And they are the only 3 children invited.

I'm with @Windows! Do what you want! We are skipping all of that. We are having a MOH and one groomsman simply to sign the marriage license and hold the rings I guess. We are also having an adult wedding and reception

We're not having either or, and our wedding will be approx 100 guests with a bridal party of 4. I don't see the point in having kids in the wedding, I know some people think it's cute, but I've seen some unpredictable things happen...not for me.

We don't have a lot of young kids in our circle but my MOH's daughter is 11 and adores H and was so excited to be a flower girl. No ring bearer.

You don't need a wedding party at all. If you have one, you can choose who is in it. You're much better off having people whom you want by your side than thinking you need to fill certain roles.