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Just Said Yes May 2018

Do i have to invite my brother’s in laws?

Sarah, on February 3, 2018 at 6:18 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 23

Hello all! Just looking for an opinion on if I have to invite my brothers in laws to my wedding. My brother doesn’t particularly care for his MIL and his MIL HATES me. She and my SIL both throw shade at me any chance they can. My parents don’t particularly care for the In Laws either, but they think...
Hello all! Just looking for an opinion on if I have to invite my brothers in laws to my wedding. My brother doesn’t particularly care for his MIL and his MIL HATES me. She and my SIL both throw shade at me any chance they can. My parents don’t particularly care for the In Laws either, but they think I should at least invite them. My dilemma is, they will come if they’re invited just so my SIL isn’t alone (since again, she hates our family). When I originally brought up not inviting them to my parents, my dad got really mad saying it would be disrespectful to not invite them. I’m having serious stress/anxiety over this and I’m looking for popular opinion/advice.
Thanks all in advance! Smiley smile

23 Comments

  • rica
    VIP September 2018
    rica ·
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    Absolutely do not invite them.

    We're inviting my FSIL's BIL, but we've known him for a long time and he's a great guy.

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  • Jules
    November 2019
    Jules ·
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    It is a must to invite bro’s or sister’s in-laws specially for Asians. This is a very serious issue that will cause big arguments between family members. It is a major sign of disrespect. It will be rude not to invite family members
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    Expert May 2010
    Theresa ·
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    Deleted. Zombie thread! Smiley atonished

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