Do I get married 7 months pregnant?

I say rock the pregnancy bod. . You don't need alcohol to have fun .. or the perfect fitting dress to marry the man you love ..

1st Congrats! I personally would push it out at least a year. But like you said def a personal decision!

I'm very close to your date, and if I were in the same position I just don't think I could postpone and lose all deposits, etc.....I'd go for it! Party of 3 Congrats!!!!

This is completely up to you. You and you FH have a major decision to make. A lot of factors could weigh on your outcome as well. Fiances, maternity leave, ect. You have to sit down with him and talk it through. There are pros and cons to each on.

Will you have the money for the wedding now (you already have deposits in place), or later (remember babies are expensive)

I have seen weddings where the bride is pregnant and she flaunts its beautifully. OP what are you leaning more towards honestly?

ETA: If it was me I would rock that pregnancy!

This is definitely a personal decision. My first concern would be money so I'd probably keep the date but scale it down.

Personally, I'd rock the baby bump because I know I wouldn't want to have a wedding later. On the other hand, FH would probably say let's cancel the wedding and save that money for the baby.

What is your heart telling you? I think most people would say you can totally rock a pregnant bod at your wedding. But if you don't feel comfortable with that, then it's your decision. Everyone will want you to be happy on your day, but don't stress yourself out! It's a happy time! You are getting a baby and a husband!

I personally don't think babies are that expensive . . I breastfeed so that saves and has saved me lots of money .. babies rock out in onesie most of the day very inexpensive .. buy the big packs of diapers .. And Baby led weaning for food is Amazing (pretty much start them on very soft solid food at 6 months ) and go from there .. My daughter has been eating real food for months and she's 14 months old . She eats what we eat..

Hi almost date twin! Congratulations. I would continue with the wedding planning. Losing all that money makes no sense.

It's a personal choice but I'd talk to your vendors before making any decisions. For example, can they offer to move your date for no or a small fee?

I hear people who push it back never get around to it because then you have a baby and life is busy. I've thought about what I'd do in this situation, and I think I'd go for it. I wouldn't want to delay the wedding at all for any reason! You can have a big anniversary party for 1 or 5 or 10 years if you feel like you missed the big party aspect of it.

@Amanda I breastfed too, however every woman is different and there are things that you can PLAN for thoroughly , however you never know what could happen. The baby may breakout from one type of diaper, may not latch on well, may be in the 97 percentile so those newborn outfits you never get to use and so much more. Babies are not cheap. OP as another PP stated financially, you may want to just keep your date. However if there is a more personal reason that is telling you not to do, then don't.

How are babies not expensive? What about childcare? In Boston we will be looking at around 1500 childcare alone. Diapers? Alllll the things they need? Not everyone gets a huge shower. I'm really confused by this statement.

I would be nervous that we would never really get around to it once the baby comes, so I would keep it as scheduled! Congratulations!!

I say rock the preggo bod and go for it! I would rather have the wedding and be married when the little one arrives!

Lol babies aren't that expensive, ok. They still need a lot of stuff and not everyone can/wants to breastfeed, do baby led weaning or whatever else "saves money". Doctors visits can add up especially depending on insurance situations, health conditions can come up, etc. One of my sons just had to stay overnight in the hospital because of a sudden reaction to a medication he'd already taken 3 times with no issue, and can now only take one type of antibiotic, which, guess what? Isn't the cheapest. That situation alone resulted in 2 ER visits, 5 trips to the doctor, plus the hospital stay. So yes, you can save money by not having all the super unnecessary stuff like wipe warmers, but babies cost money.

OP, do whatever you think is best. Personally I'd rock the pregnancy bod. When I was pregnant I felt the cutest from about 5-7 months along And if you've already put down the deposits, you might as well stick with it!

Hi date twin! If I were in your decision, I would absolutely rock the pregnancy bod!

Congrats on your soon to be bundle of joy <3

Congratulations! Personally, I'd call your vendors tell them your situation and see if you can still use them & just change the date. I'd hate to see you lose all that money, especially with a little one on the way.

Invest in wedding insurance and push it back to the end of 2018. That way you save all your deposits congrats!

Rock that bod and get it done. I've seen some couples push it back and end up not having the wedding they would like due to time and financial issues.