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Maggie
Dedicated August 2013

What do you want out of a reception?

Maggie, on June 8, 2013 at 9:45 AM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 14

This thread https://www.weddingwire.com/wedding-forums/which-wedding-trends-do-you-love-and-which-are-you-so-over/a72271ab45bce90a.html?page=1 prompted a question... what do you (as a guest, since brides seem to be biased about their receptions Smiley smile but you are welcome to share what you liked about your reception) want out of a reception? Do you want to sit there and just eat and visit with those around you? Do you want to be entertained? Do you want little games and "table activities" (like facts about the couple)? Do you want to just eat and be done or have a longer celebration with the couple?

My reception is in the church's gym right after the ceremony (with a short break for pictures). Just buffet-style food with cake and a friend announcing the bridal couple as they come in. No alcohol or dancing. I guess I just want to you know what the majority wants out of a reception and if mine is going to be horribly boring!

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Latest activity by Val, on June 8, 2013 at 1:54 PM
  • Bridget
    Dedicated July 2014
    Bridget ·
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    I want a party with shirtless fat drunk men dancing, people on the tables making toasts and taking shots. Formal us sooooo not us.

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  • Future Mrs. Coombs
    VIP March 2014
    Future Mrs. Coombs ·
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    Bridget lol! We're having a party with lots of dancing and limited alcohol, only because our kids will be there Smiley smile 4 hours of partying!

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  • Future Mrs. M
    Expert November 2013
    Future Mrs. M ·
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    I want awesome food, music, dancing and drunken "I love yous"

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  • D
    Expert September 2014
    Dani ·
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    Lol

    I want a nice buzz and lots of dancing and great food

    but... i have been to non alcoholic no dancing weddings and in that case there no reason it has to be boring great food entertainment and trivia is always fun and in between have slide show of pics and music great convo starters so if you keep it interesting guest on their toes with things not expected i feel youll b fine Smiley smile

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  • eellss80
    Super June 2013
    eellss80 ·
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    What Future Mrs. M said lol.... that's my dream reception

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  • MrsC
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    MrsC ·
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    I want people to mingle. Some will get to know each other. Others will reconnect after not seeing each other for awhile. They can dance and talk and have fun. For me, the wedding is bringing the families together. What better way to bring them together than over good food and music? If they want entertainment, they can go to a performance. We are doing stations with full seating. But we will have cocktail tables so people can stand around and chat too.

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  • H
    Master October 2013
    HalloweenBride ·
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    I want decent food with choices and a fun atmosphere. That's it. I don't mind if it's not an open bar or whatnot though I always feel like soda or tea and lemonade should be free.

    And cake, please please please, give me a slice of that wedding cake!

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  • J
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    Jules ·
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    I want really good food, access to free unlimited wine and to dance my hiney off.

    ETA: That is my ideal. However, I'm a big proponent of couples hosting what they want and they can afford. As long as no one's being rude to their guests - which you are not by ANY means, I'm cool. I can eat and hang out with my pals. Smiley smile

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  • Trena
    Master July 2013
    Trena ·
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    Sit me with my friends, and I'm set for the night. I feel wedding receptions are a great place for people to catch up and relax. Alcohol isn't a must for me, since I don't drink that much anyway. Give me a delicious lemonade, and I'm good Smiley smile don't worry about entertaining your guests. They know how to survive at a social function just fine without mad libs or couple trivia. Though those things sound like fun too if you do want to have them Smiley smile

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  • Private User
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    Private User ·
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    The reception we're having is exactly what I would want.

    4.5 hours of open bar

    an awesome band to dance to

    family and friends in attendance

    awesome but casual food (venue has a wood burning pizza oven and pizza is a part of our menu)

    semi formal dress code

    seating and bar outside in case you want a break from dancing/loud music

    an afterparty to follow with transportation provided so you can drink and not worry about it.

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  • ForeverMyLove
    Master December 2014
    ForeverMyLove ·
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    I want good food and music!

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  • Lindsay
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    Lindsay ·
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    I am so afraid that my guests will just sit there and not dance. I hope everyone dances!

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  • Aimee
    Super May 2013
    Aimee ·
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    Casual reception, lots of wine, good food, a good cover band, outdoors, a nice area to lounge and talk

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  • Val
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    Val ·
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    We had a fantastic time.. Great music and dancing, good food, drinks, played a game with dj, mingled with everyone.. Over all it was fun!

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