Most of you will get a kick out of this

That's bad enough but what's even worse is having a shower for a vow renewal.

Ahhhhhh no no no. How terrible.

@lulu that was my first thought too.. I didn't think vow renewals warranted a shower!

Wow. One invite one gift lol. Whenever I was on an invitation with my parents the recipient would receive one gift.

Did you perhaps get a separate wedding invite that didn't make it through the mail yet?

Look how far you've come in such a short time

I doubt it. But I don't even know how I would go about asking lol

Right Tina?! My wedding planning is still on pause. But, FH is coming home very soon so hoping to sort things out in person.

I'd just put some money in his commissary books

So much no

Invited to a vow renewal shower but not the vow renewal? SO soo much nope...

Wow, starting early this morning and it's not even Wednesday. WTF???

Did she not have a wedding shower before their wedding? I guess it's possible since he was in PRISON. Still, weird... I wonder why they didn't just wait until he got out??

Lol awkward

I like Sqwiggy's suggestion.

Also wear orange (is the new black)?

I agree with T Marie. I would go to the shower to see what its like. If something crazy goes down please share! But if you have 1 invite to you and your mom, you and your mom bring 1 gift together if you go. No need for one from each of you.

Richard, I LOVE that idea lmao. I'm gonna go just to see how this shower goes. I'm not sure why they got married while he was locked up... I think it had something to do with visitation rights or something. Girlfriends visit prison all the time but I think there was something more to it. She actually snuck drugs in their babies diaper one time... He's like 11, 12 maybe 13 now and he's all kinds of fucked up. Like killing small animals type of fucked up.

ETA: her mother is the most amazing, sweetest woman on the planet. It's a shame how she turned out.

The biggest problem to me here is that they got married while he was in PRISON. Why do you need to marry someone in prison??? Don't you think they clearly need to focus on their own life and bettering them self before they tackle marriage?

I saw this too often working as an officer in a prison. I feel bad for her, she probably has no idea all the women he was likely making promises to about being with. It was a common thing they do to get women to send them money for canteen goods, and SO many fall for it. Literally 90-ish % of the population was doing this, married or not. I saw it going through mail ALL. THE. TIME.

I won't even touch the shower.

They had a kid before he went but I agree mna