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Soon2BLopez
Devoted May 2018

I know its not my fault.... trigger warning !! UPDATE!

Soon2BLopez, on October 26, 2017 at 3:04 PM

Posted in Planning 154

Before I start i just want to let people know i changed my WW name and my Profile picture because after this I will feel embarrassed (my last post was the FB marketplace find maybe that will help others remember who i am) so here i go ... I decided to start this discussion because i have no one else...

Before I start i just want to let people know i changed my WW name and my Profile picture because after this I will feel embarrassed (my last post was the FB marketplace find maybe that will help others remember who i am) so here i go ... I decided to start this discussion because i have no one else who to talk to i literally dont have friends and well I really dont talk to my parent family, FH knows about this and he is the only one i talk to about everything (a reason why im marrying my BF) A couple hours ago i got a call from my mom we were talking about the wedding which i dont talk so much because she is my worst critic ..anyways.. she asked if i was going to invite my dad.. i kept quiet and she said "sounds like you are thinking hard about it" i said "im not sure, i dont know..." she said "he is supposed to walk you down the asle!" I said "well im not sure,what if i invite him and he wont come" i have invited my dad over to our house for other parties or cookouts ....continuing

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  • H
    Dedicated October 2019
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    This is amazing news. Good for you, girl. Enjoy your day!!

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  • Rachel
    VIP September 2018
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    Soon2BLopez, you are strong and you deserve to have a beautiful life surrounded by people who support you. I'm really glad you are not going to be inviting your abusers or their enablers to your wedding. Quite frankly, you may want to consider cutting ties with them completely. Stand your ground, and stay strong. Don't bother with anyone who questions your decision to cut these people out. Also, you have nothing to be embarrassed about! I completely understand wanting privacy, though.

    I'm sending love and wishes for a happy and healthy future for you!!

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  • LillyBean17
    Master October 2017
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    You did such a tough thing but you'll be thanking yourself for it! Stay strong!

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  • RaeGin
    Master September 2017
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    All of the decisions that you’ve made regarding this have taken a hell of a lot of courage. You should be proud of yourself. Wishing you nothing but the best moving forward!

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  • Future Louie
    Super August 2019
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    I'm so happy for you!! It definitely won't be easy but you're taking the right steps to happiness. I wish all the best for you and your FH!

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  • Lilian17
    Dedicated November 2017
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    My big brother raped me when i was 4 years old and my mom always assumes i should invite my big brother.

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  • OG Kathryn
    Champion May 2016
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    Thanks for the update! I hope you get the help you need!

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  • Brianna
    Dedicated October 2018
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    Omg. IMO no man that took part in your molestation should be taking part in your wedding day! I am floored that your mother expects you to have your father walk you down the aisle!! You should in no way, feel bad about not wanting/having him or your uncles at your wedding!!!

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  • Bunnycita
    Super October 2017
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    Very happy for you OP. Im happy you have a supportive FH. It broke my heart to read what happened. Thanks for the update! Best wishes Smiley smile

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  • JDSquared
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    OP I am so so sorry. It is your choice in the end but I wouldn't invite that pos. Sending love.

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  • Mozabrat
    Devoted October 2018
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    Um, no. That nasty fool would not be at my wedding and mom better put herself in check real quick or she can be looking at Facebook pics of the event as well.

    As a parent our number one function is to protect and care for our children. They failed miserably! BOTH of them, your mother is no better in looking the other way. Shame! No tolerance for child molesters. That is medieval torture justification in my book!

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  • C
    Beginner November 2018
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    No..Legit sex offender. Theres no etiquette for this person and thats how it is sometimes . He doesn't deserve to be there.

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  • Julianna
    Dedicated March 2018
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    Don't invite him. He does not deserve that.

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