FH and I met the first day of my freshman year of college, and we spent just about that entire semester sharing a bed. I don't remember having any problems with it, like at all. Anyway, he switched to online school and moved back home, and I moved back home after I graduated, and it's been a while since we've shared a bed.
FH is moved into what will be our new apartment, and I get to move in after the wedding (Sept 29). Last night, we had the rare opportunity for me to stay the night (mom is conservative and doesn't like me to spend the night, but she was out of town). I hated it.
First, he kept stealing the covers. There were basically three times throughout the night where we were playing tug of war with the covers. I don't even think he realized he was doing it. He was still 100% asleep as he was grabbing all of the covers and leaving me bare.
He also got up a few times during the night. When he went to use the restroom, he turned on the bathroom light, which startled me and woke me up and it was hard for me to go back to sleep.
Last, he kept saying stupid things in his sleep like right in my ear. I remember early this morning he said "Fix your nose." I thought, what???, and ignored him. Then he said it again. So I said, "What are you talking about?" and he said "You're whistling through your nose." My nose doesn't whistle?! I was just breathing.
I feel like one of the main issues is we need a bigger bed. It's hard to share a queen bed with someone when you're used to sleeping in a queen by yourself.
Anyone else have issues sharing a bed with your spouse? Last night made me never want to sleep with him again, but I want to sleep with my husband when we're married. How can I fix this!
