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How to send out a certain kind of invitation

Allie, on December 15, 2017 at 7:05 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 23

Hi! As the new year approaches us, we are going to start the wedding planning! Our plan is to have a cruise wedding. Where we have the wedding on the ship before it embarks on the trip. And we are only going to be inviting our close family and friends who we know would want to take a trip with us,...

Hi! As the new year approaches us, we are going to start the wedding planning! Our plan is to have a cruise wedding. Where we have the wedding on the ship before it embarks on the trip. And we are only going to be inviting our close family and friends who we know would want to take a trip with us, but we also want to keep it a secret wedding to other people who are not invited. We kind of want it to be like we are going on this cruise...and then come back home and be like “we are married!” And then throw a reception party to celebrate our marriage with everyone else the fallowing week. But I’m a little lost as how to word the invitation to the guest who we do want to invite? How would you say “hey come join us on this cruise and be a part of our wedding! But shh you can’t tell anyone because this is a secret!!” All into a Invitation!?

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  • Charli
    Expert May 2018
    Charli ·
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    I agree with Ashley! And there's lots of templates you can use, especially on Zazzle and Etsy. Here's what we're doing


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  • Charli
    Expert May 2018
    Charli ·
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    Back (sorry on mobile)


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  • K squared
    Super October 2017
    K squared ·
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    I really don't understand why someone would go through all the effort to keep their wedding a secret because they're just not adult enough to say no to their family. My parents were also upset we didn't get married in a church but it was really important to us to have our reception and ceremony in the same place so we told them this is what we're doing and stood our ground.

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