Asking bridesmaid, maid of honor, flower girl to be in the wedding

Facebook messages.

Just ask. But don't do it now. Wait until late fall of this year.

I am giving my bridesmaids necklaces that fit our theme with their intial, and taking them to lunch so they get to know each other. I don't plan to do anything more special for MOH. Not sure about flower girl yet. Probably a card.

I found these at a boutique. My FH also did cards that say "time to suit up"

I'm with RATR, just ask...

Just ask!

I just created a little gift box for them. I included a card, my favorite photos of us, free swatches of the wedding colors from the paint section, candy, and a mini bottle of champagne.

The ladies loved them!! Total cost was about $5 each.

Keep it simple. just ask.

Bridesmaids: I was originally going to do fortune cookies with a personal message inside then put it in a cute box. (you can find tutorials over how to open a normal fortune cookie to put your message inside instead of ordering custom ones!) But it did not work out because the lady at the Chinese restaurant would not give me fortune cookies since I wanted to pay card not cash.... anyways, I took little ballons and put a note inside of them and put them in a little box and had the girls pop the balloon. It was cute and affordable! For my flower girl, I got her a massive lollipop and a few flowers and put a little note with it!