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Lady Firefly
Master October 2014

Anyone send Save the Dates via email?

Lady Firefly, on March 6, 2014 at 6:12 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 16

So I honestly don't care for save the dates after sending them out last year and then postponing. HOWEVER....since our wedding is a DW I think it would be best to send them out again.

So I am considering using Paperless Post ilo mailing. Seems be very inexpensive. Has anyone used them or sent yours by email?

Would you prefer getting thru email or snail mail?

16 Comments

Latest activity by Lady Firefly, on March 6, 2014 at 8:36 PM
  • M
    Master May 2014
    MizizAngi ·
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    I sent a save the date email with a link to our wedding website. I don't think it registered for a lot of people though. Paper mailings might have been better, but I wasn't really concerned about a save-the-date in the first place - our wedding is only a couple hours away. Maybe just send your invitations a little earlier as a compromise?

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  • A&G
    Master August 2014
    A&G ·
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    My best friend who is getting married this summer sent out her save the dates through an e-card service (I forget which one).

    I thought it was great. She said that she communicates with most of her guests through e-mail anyways. I also find it helpful because I just keep that saved in my inbox and I won't forget the date now.

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  • ItsGoodToBeKing
    Master February 2014
    ItsGoodToBeKing ·
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    I used our proposal video with SAVE THE DATE at the end and linked it to everyone

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  • Helen
    Expert April 2014
    Helen ·
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    I did ours through evite.

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  • ChampagneTaste
    VIP September 2014
    ChampagneTaste ·
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    I did paperlesspost too, it worked out great. Less hassle that way, less money that way.

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  • Lady Firefly
    Master October 2014
    Lady Firefly ·
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    Seems to be a good option, I might try on at least my immediate family and see what kind of response I get from them before I send to everyone else. Thanks guys!

    mizangi - I will send our invites early then norm but think sending something in advance would help guest plan since our date is in the middle of the week and most live at least 7-8 hours away. If they come they will have to make a vacation out of it.

    Helen - I will check that site out too.....

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  • Lady Firefly
    Master October 2014
    Lady Firefly ·
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    Champagne Taste / Helen - will it let you know if the recipient received or opened?

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  • ChampagneTaste
    VIP September 2014
    ChampagneTaste ·
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    Yes, you can track if they've opened, they can even respond to you and you can even add a memo. It's pretty well done.

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  • Barbara
    Master September 2014
    Barbara ·
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    We just made our own save-the-date, saved as a jpeg, and embedded into an email message with a link directly to our website. A little under half of the people acknowledged it, and only one person's email rejected it b/c they thought it was a virus. I liked the idea of email, b/c ppl would be right on a computer and could look at our website while they're thinking about it.

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  • Michele
    VIP August 2014
    Michele ·
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    We did our paperless and it was perfect...saved money and hassles which we weren't going to worry about that's why we did email Smiley smile

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  • TexasBeThyFrontier
    Super September 2014
    TexasBeThyFrontier ·
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    I loved using Paperless Post (PP) for cheap-o save the dates that look beautiful! We made a video slideshow save-the-date using MS MovieMaker (it's free) and pictures of ourselves growing up and sent it via PP. We're having a bicycle-themed wedding and went with this design, which costs less than $0.25 an invitation: Paperless Post Save the Date Example. I also loved that PP allows you to fix typos after the fact, too.

    It took time to scan pictures, but I'm happy to have more room in the budget for fun stuff! Surprisingly, we only had about three guests out of 150 without emails. We've had 96% open the save-the-date within the first few weeks (the website tracks this for you on an email-by-email basis and also sends weekly reminders to the non-openers). I was hoping more people would also leave their addresses via PP for the real invitations, but only about 10% got that far. Another benefit of PP is that the save-the-dates include links to add the wedding to Google, Outlook, Apple and Yahoo calendars.

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  • mscountry
    Master July 2014
    mscountry ·
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    I did paperless post. I only did a few but they were free for me.

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  • Lady Firefly
    Master October 2014
    Lady Firefly ·
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    With PP I like the fact that I can order actual invites for those in my family that are not that computer savvy.

    mrscountrylace, for signing up I got some points to use for free.

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  • Eliza
    Devoted March 2015
    Eliza ·
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    We did email and facebook. Only one (old fashioned) guest complained. Everyone else said it was so easy and they loved it. It's easier to add pics and video to an email than paper mail too.

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  • Helen
    Expert April 2014
    Helen ·
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    Yes you can track it, loved that option so I knew who had seen it and who we needed to touch base with through another method.

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  • Lady Firefly
    Master October 2014
    Lady Firefly ·
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    Thanks ladies! I like the option I can track them!

    I have been playing with this all evening on both sites and seeing how it will turn out. Pretty cool so far!

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