I know I'm probably breaking some unspoken rule here, but I like them both for different reasons. My rule about this wedding is basically "waste not, want not"... if I can't repurpose it in some way, I don't want to waste $$ on it. So for my flutes, I can totally envision them on display on top of my entertainment center in the corner, maybe with some candle in them (and if we ever need toasting glasses again, we have them), opposite corner is our heart sand unity thing we're doing with the kids, with a picture of the temple we are getting sealed in hung in the back on the wall. With the cake servers, I wanted them to have that timeless, heirloom feel to pass on and use for birthdays, my kids' weddings, etc... I am really sad I don't have my great grandmothers silver set. Anyway, this is is what I found 
They don't match, but I love 'em....
