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Exactly! FH doesn't care. He's just like whatever you want. I don't care. I have no friends or family here. All of my bridesmaids are live out of the city and or state that we live in. I did hire a DOC but other than that it's just me.

I'm sorry you're feeling so isolated It's unfortunate that men really don't care too much to be involved in the major wedding planning - they just want to enjoy the party, meanwhile you're the one stressing over every little detail! I'm glad you at least have a coordinator who can help you out. I have no friends to talk to through this process and I was beginning to feel lonely, but I'm lucky enough to have two cousins and my sister, though I'm afraid I annoy them with all my wedding talk! I hope things get easier for you. Make sure you plan wedding - talk free dates nights with FH so you can relax and enjoy your time together before your big day. Sometimes the real meaning of the wedding gets lost in the details, but at the end of the day, it is about the two of you and your life together!

View Quoted Comment Yeah I'm slowly buying everything and getting it all together myself. FH helps on what he can but it's not like he knows what to get or what to do or where.... But honestly I like doing it myself whenever I have time.

Oh I’m so sorry you’re feeling discouraged! I can empathize because I, too, was feeling like a lot was being put on me for me to plan/figure out. Do one thing at a time. Narrow down vendor options to 2-3 after doing your research and ask for your fiancés input so he can weigh in so you don’t feel like he’s not contributing. And don’t feel alone - You’ve got the WW community to help you!