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Angel
Expert August 2020

Did you skip a day-of-coordinator?

Angel, on February 20, 2020 at 7:54 PM Posted in Planning 0 7

Hiii! Curious about your wedding experience if you chose to not hire a day-of-coordinator. My wedding is going to be pretty laid back. The ceremony and reception will be at 2 separate venues, but there really won't be too much to set up, and my bridal party, mother and I have plenty of time to set up in the morning. We are having a guitarist at our ceremony for just an hour. We have a small bridal party and only 50 guests. Not doing a garter/bouquet toss. Won't have a DJ. MOH will be announcing first dance/parent dances/grand entrance, etc. So, do I really need a DOC?

The only things I'm concerned about are who's going to tell us to walk down the aisle, (although I'm sure I could find somebody) and to notify the officiant/musician when the ceremony is about to start. And just someone to make sure the ceremony rentals are set up nicely, which I could also do myself or designate someone else.

Anywho, let me know your experience if you went without one! And/or what you think I should do! TIA Smiley smile

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Latest activity by Danica, on February 23, 2020 at 6:08 AM
  • Erin
    VIP September 2023
    Erin ·
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    I'm not getting married or having a reception at a traditional venue, so I am free to skip the day-of-coordinator, and my wedding is small enough that I'm not worried about it. A lot of venues require you have one, so I would check to make sure yours doesn't before making any decisions.

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  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    I had one. I only hired Him for two hours though just for the purpose of making sure my reception was set up since I couldn’t do it myself with my wedding party. For the ceremony we just directed ourselves because we rehearsed the night before and knew
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  • Angel
    Expert August 2020
    Angel ·
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    Its not required.
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  • Mrs. S
    Master November 2019
    Mrs. S ·
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    I didn’t get one but I wish I had. It would have been so much easier.
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  • Pirate & 60s Bride
    Legend March 2017
    Pirate & 60s Bride ·
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    Our venue provided two. We only had 15 guests but it would have been chaos without them! They directed vendors, guests, and helped us keep to our timeline.
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  • Emma
    Devoted March 2021
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    I was in the same boat where I fully wasn't planning on getting one. And then the closer we get the more and more things I thought of that I needed to get done on the day. I finally decided to buckle because I didn't want to spend my day worrying about who needed to be where. From what I've seen, it seems like everyone that has had one says that its definitely worth it. I don't think you need one, but if you have the budget I really don't think it hurts. Especially if you're worried about the ceremony flowing, you may be able to find a coordinator that you can hire hourly or who will just do the ceremony.

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  • Danica
    Devoted November 2020
    Danica ·
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    We’re not doing one. Both my ceremony and reception venue said they will set the spaces up for me as long as I drop my decor off the day before and as long as I provide photos of what I want it to look like, BUT we are only having immediate family only, I know exactly what I want everything to look like (second marriage so been planning for a while lol), and I plan events for a living anyways.


    If it is going to help keep you calm the day of, do it and easy the stress you might put into yourself. You will have plenty on your mind already doe he day of....
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