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Amy
Savvy August 2020

Did you include fh family in wedding party?

Amy, on February 26, 2020 at 1:46 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 22

My future husband actually has 5 sisters and one sister in law! most of them are older, but one sister and SIL are my age I kind of want to include them but at the same time my FH doesn't want to include my brothers as groomsmen and it just means he would have to find another groomsmen for her to...

My future husband actually has 5 sisters and one sister in law! most of them are older, but one sister and SIL are my age I kind of want to include them but at the same time my FH doesn't want to include my brothers as groomsmen and it just means he would have to find another groomsmen for her to stand with.

And also his SIL and sister are best friends so if I include his sister i'm only leaving out his SIL. Since her husband (his brother) is the best man. I would be adding two bridesmaids then, i just don't want them to feel left out but at the same time we are not super close but I did want our wedding party to incorporate both of our families. so my options are (none of his family) (just his sister) or add his (sister and SIL)

right now I just have my sister, my niece, and my cousin.

these are just questions i feel like nobody can relate to.

FYI wedding is in August already is it to late to ask?

who all did you have stand in your bridal party did u include his family?

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  • FAWN
    Dedicated October 2020
    FAWN ·
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    your side your pick... same for groom.

    I have his sister, my step sister and my sister. i have no friends so his sister is a good fir and my flower girl is my soon to be step daughter. ( if my other sister was still alive things would be different .

    His side i his brother, and 2 best friends from child hood ( one is married to his cousin so i guess its his cousin lol) and my son for the rings.

    Im not mad he has no one from my side other then my son.



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  • Kari
    Master May 2020
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    Those closest to you are the ones who should stand by you. If your sister, niece, and cousin are the only ones that make the cut, then that's it. You don't need to include your FH's sisters, and you don't need to have even numbers in your wedding parties.

    My best friend is my MOH and that's it. My FH is having four groomsmen. He has a sister who is invited as a guest with no special role.

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