Did i say 'yes' to the (right) dress?

It's totally normal to have doubts! I came down to two dresses - I was super torn. My entourage encouraged me to get the dress that I have now. I wasn't 100% on board, and I still kept thinking about the other dress. Fast forward to now and I absolutely love my dress!

I love dress two! It’s very pretty. Dress one is nice but plain in my opinion.

I prefer dress #2 muuuch more than the first

I totally get what you are saying, especially about making a meal selection haha! Both dresses are absolutely beautiful. Is there any wiggle room to change your order to dress #1? If so, go back in and try it on for another spin.

If not, I would take a day to mourn dress #1 then delete all your photos of it and focus your attention on dress #2 and why you chose it. It has the neckline, lace, and is something exciting/new for your FH! It is a great dress, and you will look lovely on your wedding day.

Dress 2 is so pretty. It's very romantic. Dress one is gorgeous too. I love your analogy with the food ahaha it makes it so easy to understand

I think number 2 is prettier. Number 1 is nice but kinda plain.

I totally get what you're saying about the food thing. I personally prefer dress 2 to dress 1. There are still elements that are similar. Both skirts are satin and have a similar shape. If you want off the shoulder, maybe you can incorporate that in alterations. Also, I personally think lace is just as timeless as all-over satin! Unless you have the budget to get dress 1, the best thing to do is just focus on what you love about dress 2 and push dress 1 out of your mind. There is no sense in dwelling in "what ifs" if you can't do anything about it except make yourself go crazy.

I’ve had tons of doubts! But, let me tell you... girl... the dress you chose is gorgeous!!! You look amazing and you made the right choice!!

Definitely 2.

Dress 2!!!!!! No comparison!!

I love dress 2! I've actually tried that on so I know how beautiful that dress is in person. Don't overthink it! You made the right choice! This is a very beautiful dress and you are gonna love it!

I love both however I completely see why you purchased dress #2. I as well love lace 🥰

also like you said with dress #1 its a similar silhouette to what you’ve worn before (off shoulder).
I think you made the right decision. However you’re the bride so it’s ultimately up to you. If it’s any consolation I too have had dress doubts. I really wanted to have my dress custom made and/or be able to wear like 10 dresses on the day of. However those options were not just unfortunately out of my price range but also irrational and impractical...but I still wanted to do that. 😂 I was strongly torn between at least 3 different dresses at point. For awhile. Then like someone else has said on here..I mourned a bit for the others but once I considered pictures, walking down the aisle to my best friend, & being myself.....I knew deep down I’d picked the right one and all doubts melted away and never returned.

You look stunning in both! Dress 2 just stands out more, seems more special. Follow your heart, just shut out all the chatter in your head and listen to your heart.

I’m not just saying this to make it ok for you. I love dress #2. While #1 is nice...#2 is gorgeous!!!! I think you made the right decision.

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I'm glad you've gotten over the dress woes! I hope to get there someday (soon). lol. 95% of my entourage loved dress 1 - the one I didn't choose. Of course!!

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Thanks for that suggestion! You are right - it is like a state of mourning. Haha. That sounds so dramatic for a dress, but it's pretty true. I just need to shift my focus off the dead and gone dress and move forward. I don't know about deleting the photos. I have such a hard time with that. I still have photos of my first (now ex) bf years and years ago (who is NOT my FH) LOL, but shhh....no one has to know.

For me my dress is something I did not picture! it had everything I did not want! however I can't see myself walking down the aisle not wearing it! I will say I did have dress regret after we bought it but I think that is normal! its a big deal as long as you are happy with it that's all that maters! I think both dress look amazing one you!

Both look great on you, but I absolutely LOVE dress 2!! You look stunning

Dress #1 just screams romantic,timeless and classic. I know what you mean by wanting your FH to look at something different but I think #1 is beautiful. I'm not much of a plain girl( i like bling and lace lol) But that dress is just gorgeous! #2 is very pretty too.

Both are gorgeous but #2 has more of a wow factor.