So I need to know if I’m overreacting. Me and my best friend have been best friends for over 10 years. We also have been dating two guys that are brothers for more than 6 years so you can say we are all pretty close.
Recently I found out that my best friend is getting proposed to soon. I am initially happy for her and excited because I am getting married in the next month. However, I was disappointed that her boyfriend didn’t tell me about the proposal. I had no idea until someone mentioned something about it.
The thing that upsets me is her bf told three of our other friends except me and they helped planned the proposal. Yes we are all friends but no one is close and know everything about my best friend but me. Now like I said we are all close (best friend, her boyfriend, my fiancé) and all hangout almost everyday. So this really hurt me. When I asked why He didn’t tell me he said because a couple years ago I told my best friend about a surprise on her birthday that I had no idea was a surprise because it was something so simple (getting off early from work to see her). The only thing I knew was that he got off of work early and was with his brother (my boyfriend). So when my best friend asked where was my BF I told her he was with his brother.
I’m just upset because me and my best friend always talk about her getting married and leading up until that. My boyfriend thinks I’m overreacting but it hurt my feelings.
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