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September 2020

Destination Wedding

September Wedding, on January 8, 2020 at 10:31 AM

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I've got so many questions. It's at an 18 and over resort, groom has 2 younger siblings so there is no way the grooms family can attend. This was brought up when first discussed but now it seems intentional. So, even if his parents had the funds to attend they do not have the option. I understand it...
I've got so many questions. It's at an 18 and over resort, groom has 2 younger siblings so there is no way the grooms family can attend. This was brought up when first discussed but now it seems intentional. So, even if his parents had the funds to attend they do not have the option. I understand it is about them, but how do you help the grooms mother cope, she's heartbroken, the whole family is devistated, this is a family that used to be close?
Also, gifts...they aren't technically inviting anyone to the wedding, only a reception. So, do you get a gift? Also, she expects the grooms parents to pay for alcohol at a backyard reception at her parents home, can they say no?
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  • J
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    Jasmyn ·
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    She’s not crazy at all for being upset or disappointed! If it’s not too personal, has he always been this way? Could this stem from the influence of his future wife? Is it worth the conversation between him and his parents to see what is actually going on?
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  • S
    September 2020
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    No, he was not this way before. Everyone is shocked, he has shut everyone out. No one can talk to him, he stops speaking to them and blocks them. the whole situation is horrible! It seems hopeless at this point, to try and help him.

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    Dedicated June 2021
    Jasmyn ·
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    Well I’m sure it may have something to do with her but he’s also a grown adult making decisions so the whole blame can’t go on her. Hopefully it all works out! Good luck 😫
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  • S
    September 2020
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    This is exactly where mom is at in her thought process, fiance is probably a big part of this but he is deciding to do this so, it is as it is. She is definitely feeling better about the fact that she is ok to be hurt, they had her convinced she was so selfish for being upset, it was hard to watch her struggle. You guys have actually helped more than you know!

    Thank you


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