Hello everyone FH and me are trying to come up with the money for our photographer we just met yesterday my fiance said he would be able to come up with the money in about a month but then he sounded unsure of it but my fear is we dont come up with the deposit for her which we love her work is $1500 within a month and we lose her services and our date. We hired our wedding planner on Dec 10th and we are 3 months now 4 into the wedding planning process and still haven't put any deposits down. Our tentative date for our wedding is sept 12, 2020 but we were supposed to see venues last week but our planner cancelled our appts for the tours and we are possibly going to have to book the venue later. I have been stressing since we started the process and nothing has been locked down yet due to money. Our photographer gave her contract shes just waiting on us to pay her deposit and sign the contract. Any Sept of 2020 brides? I am a full time college student and my fiance is paying our whole wedding ourselves. No family can help us my parents dont want to because I never had a good relationship with them anyways and his family doesnt have much money. How do you ladies with the stress if any of you have not put down any deposits yet? Its so stressful.