Hi everyone
I'm new to this and me and my Fiance have came to a crossroad on this journey. We got engaged last March and it's amazing only problem now is trying to compromise on our guest list. About 5months ago my partner had said she wanted a small wedding of about 50ppl, Or no guests and just to get married. Unfortunately it's not that simple for me as I have a large family and I'm the first to be getting married on in my family. At the start I didn't agree with her but she had me kinda persuaded in a way in which I ended up agreeing on 50being the final number. I was content, until last week when I started to get anxiety and fear and stress over certain uncles and aunts not being there on my wedding day. I have 3sides to my family and She doesn't want any of my family apart from my direct family and friends to be there. I am now been given an ultimatum on whether we have 50ppl or the wedding is cancelled. I can't see my feelings changing towards wanting my uncles and aunts being there on my wedding day as they are a big part of my life from before I met my partner. I feel if I get married without involving them I'm burning bridges. If I don't burn that bridge I burn my relationship. I feel exhausted
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