I know there is such thing as this, but this is causing so much stress. It is overwhelming me to the fullest. When Fh and I met we did a lot of things together and he put most things on his credit card. Once we started thinking about our future and marriage we slowed down and cut back a lot. His dad was really upset when he found out he had credit card debt. I also had cc debt too and have student loans and a car to pay off, but his dad is always involved in his money and I get he wants to make sure FH does things right, but sometimes he is very invasive especially having access to view his debit card account. I just get very overwhelmed with the whole financial situation. I feel like a lot is put on me all the time and I am just thinking that maybe a debt free marriage is impossible for us.
Not knowing what to do and how to handle this 
