Hey, I'm looking for some creative ideas here!
I do not enjoy the getting ready process of weddings. I don't wear make-up or jewelry and rarely do my hair. Just not what I'm into. Waiting around all day to get your hair and make-up done or having it done early and just hanging around is long and boring to me, and I'm always jealous that the grooms parties are doing fun games and activities.
So I'd like my day-of to look more like that - let's go kayak or play croquet or something! I know having a traditional bridal party prep day is going to make me cranky, and that's not the mindset I want to be in when I get married.
That said - I have a big bridal party. There are 9 bridesmaids. Adding in moms, flower girls (twins) and their mom, we're getting to about 18 people. And I know especially the moms are going to expect that and are going to not-so-subtly try to push me in that direction.
I'm not currently planning to hire professionals to do hair and make-up. Again, just not where I want to put my time and money. I'm matching up bridesmaids who are good at hair and make-up and willing to help others with other people in the party who'd like help. Though my wedding coordinator is really recommending I get someone to just do me and the moms.
So I'm looking for some ideas so that we can get everyone happy and looking pretty but also... fun for me? Anyone have examples of non-traditional day-of activities they've done with their bridal party, or what that could look like for someone who wants something a little different? Maybe a spa day (is that too much to ask for people $$-wise though?)
