My whole planning process I've tried to be super laid back with. I kind of had an image of how I wanted my BMs to look though. I wanted them to be in a darker beige/ tan/ light brown color with any long dress of their choice. My girls all wanted to be similar which I was fine with! Really I just wanted them to be comfortable in a dress that they didn't hate. They ended up all deciding on the Versa convertible dress from Davids Bridal. Great! Similar for them but still able to be somewhat different! The closest color we could find at Davids was biscotti. Which was a little lighter than I wanted but I was okay with it. The store didn't have the Versa dress in stock in biscotti but the consultant showed us a dress in the same fabric in the correct color. My girls all ordered their dresses that day in the biscotti color. I bought a swatch of the fabric to have incase I wanted to match anything to it. (Cont in comments)