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Shannon
Expert September 2012

Cut-Off Time for Kids to EXIT the Reception?

Shannon, on April 10, 2012 at 2:42 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 22

I wish I had told people no kids because now I am stressing about the attention seeking behavior that I won't tolerate on THAT day. Every time I attend a family function I get anxiety about this after b/c it feels like that scene in Home Alone where it's just total chaos with yelling and screaming...

I wish I had told people no kids because now I am stressing about the attention seeking behavior that I won't tolerate on THAT day. Every time I attend a family function I get anxiety about this after b/c it feels like that scene in Home Alone where it's just total chaos with yelling and screaming and things spilling. I am considering requesting that kids retire for the evening at 8:30-9pm. (There is an on-site sitter and the reception is at a small Inn, where most people are staying for the night. The room is small and the dancefloor is, let's just say, barely adequate for the way we like to dance. I have seen it happen over and over again where kids get out there and it's silly and cute for 5 minutes, but then adults feel weird about dancing and the party dies. That would be a total failure reception for me because I just love dancing. So...

Seating &Ceremony 5-6

Cocktail 6-7

Dinner 7-8

Adults Only Reception 9-11

Appreciate your thoughts... (Especially if you have children!)

22 Comments

  • krisalicious
    Master April 2012
    krisalicious ·
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    I forgot to say I think onsite babysitting is awesome and I would try to make it as attractive as possible, like a neon sign that says "FUN STUFF FOR KIDS HEEEERE!" and maybe special treats they can only play with in that room or something.

    Maybe if you make it like a little kiddie VIP lounge where they get extra fun stuff ONLY for going there they will want to go and you don't have to tell them they have to. Does that make sense?

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  • Carole M (a.k.a "old tart")
    Master October 2011
    Carole M (a.k.a "old tart") ·
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    Kris does have a good point about kids leaving parents and parents liking the sitter.

    You may want to reconsider and not include children.

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