After replying to another thread, I am curious about what you think are the pros and cons of eloping when others weren't aware. Is it better if the 'real' wedding still occurs and people find out after? Would you still go to the real wedding if you knew there was an elopement? Is it better if you hide it forever?
What would make an elopement 'ok' for you, especially if you were close to the bride and groom?