Hi all,
My fiance and I are high school sweethearts. We got engaged a month ago after 8 years together. We are thinking of a wedding date in like three years because we are just starting out and have zero money for anything right now. The only thing is, thinking about all the planning, time, and money right now is so overwhelming. Not to mention the family drama already starting. He and I talked about eloping or doing a courthouse wedding before but now it's all real. Both of our families want to big wedding with lots of people and all that entails. We, on the other hand, really only care that at the end we're married. As long as we are there, holding hands saying our vows, nothing else really matters to us.
With all the drama, expenses, and everything involved, we are leaving more towards the idea of having a courthouse weeding with only two of our closet friends. That way we don't feel as pressured to do the "real wedding" in the three time frame, we can do it when we are actually financial ready. For us it would be a vow renewal and celebration. To our families, it would be a "real wedding" they all want.
Does anyone have advice for us? I know I'm really torn but maybe talking to someone who has gone through this thinking may help.
Thanks in advance!
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