Could this be the dress?

My wedding is 9/24/2022 - and I just had my first dress appointment yesterday. I’m choosing not show my fiancé or folks outside of my bridal party and want some outside opinions! I think I found my dress - I woke up thinking about it and started researching vintage veils, jewelry, accessories - but it’s very different than what I thought I’d end up wearing - because it has a very dark nude underlay with crisp, architectural lace. It has drama and fits with my venue, a stunning abandoned and dramatic 1920s hotel lobby with amazing original details. I’m going for a moody, romantic, ethereal vibe.


My question - will this dress read as dated or just trendy ten years from now? I absolutely love that it has a dramatic train and feels different and unique. I’m 37 and never thought I’d wear a white dress so the nude feels right to me in some ways. In other ways, I worry it’s too risqué? I think I could pair it with a vintage 1930s veil or some gold and Pearl hair accessories to perhaps evoke more of a bridal feel. It also comes with an ivory underlay but i worry it will lose the drama!



Thoughts?