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Coping Tips?

Cameron, on April 18, 2020 at 12:58 AM Posted in Community Conversations 0 3

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Hey everyone, today my governor made a public statement about his plans for reopening and there’s no way we can have our wedding on May 23rd like we have been planning for the past year. We’re going from 34 days to over 140 days (assuming that doesn’t get changed too) away and I’m absolutely crushed. I’ve been saying for weeks that it wasn’t going to happen on the 23rd, but now that it’s a reality and my fiancé and I made the call I’m even more of a wreck than I have been. People keep trying to give us new ideas but we have had almost 2 months to think through our options logically and we can’t even elope on that date because money is just too tight for us to be able to afford somewhere to live, groceries, and insurances (etc). I’ve been waiting so long to start my life with him and I really don’t know how it’ll handle this.

How are you guys coping with your similar situations?

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Latest activity by Amy, on April 20, 2020 at 5:34 PM

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Rebelle Fleur · on April 18, 2020 at 6:17 AM
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You have to look on the bright side. Both of you are alive, healthy and still have the opportunity to be wed at a later date. A lot of people have lost lost their spouses. You still have each other. A lot of people can’t get married ever in the countries they live in. Have a day to let it all out and then shake it off and go ahead with planning your new date. You can make it work. You planned one lovely wedding, you can plan another. All is not lost. What really matters is that you will marry your husband and you will start your married life soon. Praying for you!!!
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Cyndy · on April 18, 2020 at 9:28 AM
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I love what the PP said. While I understand this is hard for many upcoming brides be lucky this virus hasn’t impacted you or your loved ones in a serious way. Stay positive and look forward to your new big day.
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Amy · on April 20, 2020 at 5:34 PM
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Hi Cameron,
I'm so sorry that you've had to postpone your wedding. There's so much anticipation as the big day approaches, so it's appropriate to feel sad, frustrated, disappointed, etc. Feel your feelings!
I also agree with the PP. Most people's lives have been impacted to some extent by COVID-19, and the pandemic is ongoing. It's hard on everyone for different reasons--isolation, limited childcare, mobility challenges, working from home, layoffs, etc, There are moments throughout the day when quarantine life -- and the things I'm missing (e.g., hugs from friends, happy hours, dinner dates with my husband) -- hits me and feels super heavy. In those moments, I *try* to keep some perspective, but my feelings roll through in waves. Do you feel that way about your wedding? Sad that it's postponed, relieved that you don't have to worry about if/when to postpone it anymore, grateful that you'll still get married, and so on?
On a related note, WeddingWire has posted an article for people who can't go on their honeymoons right now, which I completely understand is different than a wedding (but also disappointing to those couples). You'll find it here: 8 Staycation Ideas If You Can't Go On Your Honeymoon. These suggestions could be a way to make your quarantine time together extra special.
Hope this helps!
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