I could really use some insight and support from other Covid brides. Like many of you, the perfect wedding I had planned for myself last Fall fell apart. My fiance and I (now husband) quickly scrambled to move the vendors all to a new date in Fall of 2021, but for many reasons, we chose to be married with a small group of family this February. At the time we made these plans, I figured that the Feb date would be our paper signing date, but the Fall would feel more like our *real, dream wedding*.
Well, my wedding in February was more than I could have ever dreamed of. It wasn't grand at all and definitely not what I imagined. I got ready with just my sisters. Just immediate family was in attendance. But I was able to have a photographer, and I wore my dream dress, and I was married at the church I grew up in. I had beautiful moments with my mother and father, I wrote my sisters letters about how much they meant to me, I watched my husband tear up as I walked down the aisle. My sisters surprised me by buying bridesmaids dresses, and my parents bought me special jewelry. Afterwards, we had a dinner reception at my parents house, and we had a small cake, a first dance, and food my grandma (my favorite cook) helped prepare. It was truly the best and most magical day of my life.
So now I'm planning this dream day of mine and...I don't want it anymore. I don't want to wear my dress again because it feels sacred for that one day. I don't want to get ready with my sisters again. I am just so over it and ready to move on with my wonderful memories.
But we have already spent so much money on this rescheduled celebration and I feel like I can't pull out now. Also, my celebration is now squished between many people's weddings, and because it was a destination to begin with, I feel like nobody will come to my mere *celebration* (we shared that we were married with family/friends and on social media).
I feel sick about the whole thing and I just wish I could get out of it somehow. I don't know what I'm asking but I could really use some advice.