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Close with dad and uncle -- what should i do for my uncle / don't want to take away from daddy/daughter dance

Katelyn, on September 3, 2020 at 4:08 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 4

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I'm close with my father and my uncle, and would like to honor my uncle in some special way during the day of my wedding, but don't want to take the special moment from my father, either. Anyone have any ideas as to what I can do to include him/make him know how much I appreciate him without taking attention from my dad? I was thinking maybe a dance with ALL my uncles & my brothers where they all line up and every thirty seconds or so I switch off...not sure if that is extra or if it would be cute. My parents had me young, and the saying "it takes a village" runs very strong in my family, so I would like to honor those who have helped get me to this point in life.

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Melle · on September 3, 2020 at 5:00 PM
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How many uncles and brothers would that be? if it's a few then i would say go for it or if it's a lot then maybe just do a fun song they all can come up and just dance with you to
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Shelly · on September 4, 2020 at 12:53 AM
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Have them all dance around you in a circle for a fun dance such as Dancing Queen, etc. A friend's family did this at her wedding (though she didn't know the plan) and it was fun.
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Lynnie · on September 4, 2020 at 10:38 AM
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You could also do something privately for your uncle, like give him a sentimental gift at the rehearsal dinner or make sure to share a special dance during the reception with him!
Or if you plan on giving a quick welcome or thank you speech at your rehearsal dinner or reception you can talk about how it "took a village" and specifically thank your uncle!
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Samantha · on September 4, 2020 at 10:16 PM
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A friend of mine had a similar situation, and for the ceremony her uncle walked her partway down the aisle and then her dad walked her the rest of the way to "give her away" - it was so so sweet.
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