Clinking for Kisses: Yea or Nay?

I was thinking that the first time the glasses get clinked we'll kiss but afterwards have the DJ pick a random couple from the guests to kiss instead of it always being us, especially since we really don't want all the attention to be on us. (We understand its our wedding day and the attention will be on us anyway).

I've actually considered having signs that asks guests to do something else besides clinking glasses. We have some individuals coming (including myself) that could have some serious health conditions flare up if all that clinking goes on. so we're trying to avoid it at all possible.

I saw one sign on etsy that said you had to sign instead of clink a glass if you want the bride and groom to kiss. We couldn't do that, but than again it could be funny.

My husband hates the "clink for a kiss" thing so much, he was THRILLED that our cutlery and cups were all plastic so nobody could do it lmao

Not even a little bit. FH and I have talked a lot about this and we're going to have a "kissing menu". Where our guest have to preform a silly dance, demonstrate a kiss for us to copy, get their whole table to sing or contribute to our honeymoon fund... silly things like that. We've both been to several wedding where there was clinking every 5 minutes and you could tell all the couple wanted to do was get one bite of food down before another clink.

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I love this idea!!! What a fun way to include your guests in the fun!

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That could be fun!! Someone said that they had guests sing a short song or do a dance if they wanted a kiss, which could be funny!!

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Yes I love this idea!! It's a fun way to have your guests involved in something fun other than dancing!

Nah, I don't really see the point.

I hope so! I love it at weddings!

No no and more no

Nay. I mean, we will probably do it in the moment.

I’m not feeling it and the Mr. will want to eat without interruption but I know people will still do it

Never knew this was such a thing. Most likely skipping this part.

I didn't even know that this was a thing! So definitely skipping it.