Civil wedding

You can't worry about anyone else will say, even parents. Do whats right for the both of you. And what better way to prove her wrong than have a long, happy marriage lol

Has she shared any reasons as to why she was against you two marrying or having children?

View Quoted Comment Well she has told me before that she wished her son got bk with his ex .. 😑

View Quoted Comment Lol... thanks 😊

View Quoted Comment Yikes! I’m sorry to hear that. What’s done is done. That says more about her character than yours. I plan on having a courthouse wedding as well. My future MIL has never said anything that bold, but she has insulted me before. My future husband’s brother does not take care of his 2 year old daughter. He does not feed her nor bathe her. My future MIL does all of the child rearing of her granddaughter. I once asked her why, and instead of her politely saying “it’s none of your business,” she responds as “perhaps if you were more mature, you could see that my son cannot do this.”
Ummm her son is a grown a** man and is not physically nor mentally handicapped. If he can wipe his own bum and put food in his mouth then he can do it to his child.
She pretended to be happy for 5 mins that he proposed to me. She has shown zero interest in our wedding plans and has not once asked. It is what it is. It used to bother me, but how I think it’s her loss. I am the only woman that one of her three boys have brought home who is financially, emotionally and physically independent. Who had never asked her for money and who genuinely wants to have a good in law relationship with her.

Hi there!

I’m sorry your FS mom has not been supportive of you both getting married in the past. I can completely see why you’re nervous to tell her.

As the previous poster mentioned, you and your FS have to do what is right for the both of you. If you wish to marry, you don’t have to justify this. It would be nice to have his mom’s support, however, you are both consenting adults.

Hopefully with time she may come around And if not, that’s ok too! We support you and want to congratulate you on your engagement!

View Quoted Comment Thank you so much 😊😊😊😊...

View Quoted Comment Sounds like my brother in law lol difference is he is a stay at home dad n the wife works... 😬...

Btw Congrats on your wedding 😀🙌