Hello! I'm looking for some help on wedding invitation wording. My fiancé and I aren't really wanting a ton of small children at our wedding, but my dad is paying for the meal and is insisting that there will be kids. So we are compromising. I'm inviting first cousins and VERY close family friends' children, but would like the children to leave by 9. Has anyone else done this? How do you politely word it? Thanks!