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Savanah
VIP July 2017

Childless weddings???

Savanah, on August 2, 2016 at 6:30 AM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 23

So I was considering have a childless ceremony and reception. It was just a thought due to the behavior of kids I've previously attended weddings at. I don't have kids yet so I'm not sure how people with children feel. I would prefer anyone who can get a sitter to do so, but if they can't I would...

So I was considering have a childless ceremony and reception. It was just a thought due to the behavior of kids I've previously attended weddings at. I don't have kids yet so I'm not sure how people with children feel. I would prefer anyone who can get a sitter to do so, but if they can't I would totally understand them bringing them. I've just had experiences at weddings and the kids get out of control and can be annoying to guests because let's face it.. parents aren't generally keeping a 24/7 watchful eye in a room full of family and friends. Last year we had attended a wedding with a candy bar as favors and these kids ransacked it and left it a huge mess and candy was all over the dance floor ect. We were all dancing at one point and the kids just wanna chase eachother and it was just a mess with the crying and the candy and the yelling lol. Too many weddings are like this. Not all! But I fear for the worst ! Lol. Just want some opinions! Thanks everyone.

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  • Stephanie
    Dedicated March 2018
    Stephanie ·
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    I am planning on a kid free wedding. I plan on specifically stating no children under 12 please on my invitations. I do not want to hear screaming kids on my wedding day, nor do I want to have to worry about the parents not keeping them in line.

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  • SarahAnn1015
    Super October 2016
    SarahAnn1015 ·
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    Ours will be adult only with the exception of our nieces who are in the wedding party. FH has a little cousin who is an instigator of chaos and drama and we didn't want to have to deal with it on our wedding day lol.

    However, if someone can't get a sitter you can't make an exception for them unfortunately. If you make an exception for one, then you have to for them all.

    Since our RSVPs are entirely online i just made sure to put a little blip that we won't be able to accommodate the addition of children and apologize for any inconvenience.

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  • Savanah
    VIP July 2017
    Savanah ·
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    Thanks! Good idea on how to word things. I wasn't sure how to make sure it came across, as well as politely.

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