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Devoted September 2019

Changing your mind on your dress

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sydney, on November 20, 2018 at 7:46 AM

Okay ladies so I haven't been able to sleep because I feel like I was lying to myself about the dress I said yes to. I feel like when I went to Davids Bridal I was pressured to say yes especially since everyone around me was watching. Is it normal to change your dress? There was one dress I tried on on my first dress appointment and I have kept going back to it since I tired it on. I even couldn't sleep last night due to the fact that I felt guilty for not saying yes to the dress I really want. Is that a sign? If you keep going back to a certain dress and cant quit thinking about it could that mean its the "one"?

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Super March 2019
Gloria · on November 20, 2018 at 9:11 AM
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Both dresses are beautiful but the first dress is gorgeous on you and like everyone is saying you need to make an appointment try it on again and just listen to your heart ♥️ Good Luck
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FutureMrsC · on November 20, 2018 at 9:13 AM
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I know several women that got wedding dresses that they eventually sold off or cancelled the order because they felt like they settled for less due to cost or was pressured to get a dress. Unfortunately it's not uncommon. I would definitely go back to the boutique and try that dress back on, it's gorgeous! And the dress you got clearly is not "the one" otherwise you wouldn't even remember the other dress.
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sydney · on November 20, 2018 at 9:17 AM
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Thanks Ladies I feel so much better knowing this is a common feeling!
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Kim · on November 20, 2018 at 9:24 AM
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I love this dress on you! I would say go with your gut though.
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Alexandra · on November 20, 2018 at 9:44 AM
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I would go again by myself or just my mom and sister (or someone who you trust has your best interest at heart) because they will be honest with me, and if I love the first one, they will back me up 1000%.
DO NOT SETTLE!!! (unless it's totally out of your budget of course) If you feel this way now without being sure about the one you said "yes" to, imagine all the regretful thoughts you are going to have every single time you look at your photos.
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Taylor · on November 20, 2018 at 3:44 PM
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Wow! That first dress is beautiful! Yes go back by yourself or only your mom and or a friend on a week day if possible. It’ll be quiet and you’ll be the only person in there most likely. That way you can try it on again and really think to yourself without all the unecessary pressure. Good luck!
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Future Mrs Brown · on November 20, 2018 at 4:22 PM
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I love the lace one. you look good in it. it fits your body perfectly and looks way better. thats the same style I'm going for.
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Nett · on November 20, 2018 at 4:51 PM
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Yes I’d say the dress that you can’t stop thinking about is the one for you, however the one you purchased is absolutely beautiful on you.
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Jeannette · on November 20, 2018 at 6:08 PM
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I love the 1st dress on you good luck on finding the your dream dress im still looking
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Ashley · on November 20, 2018 at 7:33 PM
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Ok, first off.. You're stunning, and that dress is stunning. Second.. You go back to that place and put that dress back on immediately, if not sooner. Don't short yourself for a once in a lifetime thing. Go do your thing girl, and don't let anyone tell you differently.
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