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sydney
Devoted September 2019

Changing your mind on your dress

sydney, on November 20, 2018 at 7:46 AM Posted in Wedding Attire 0 30
Okay ladies so I haven't been able to sleep because I feel like I was lying to myself about the dress I said yes to. I feel like when I went to Davids Bridal I was pressured to say yes especially since everyone around me was watching. Is it normal to change your dress? There was one dress I tried on on my first dress appointment and I have kept going back to it since I tired it on. I even couldn't sleep last night due to the fact that I felt guilty for not saying yes to the dress I really want. Is that a sign? If you keep going back to a certain dress and cant quit thinking about it could that mean its the "one"?

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Latest activity by Ashley, on November 20, 2018 at 7:33 PM
  • Kenisha
    Champion June 2019
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    I’d make another appointment to go by yourself and see how you feel then; when it’s just you so you can hear your own thoughts and follow your heart.
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  • sydney
    Devoted September 2019
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    Good idea!

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  • Chandra
    Master May 2019
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    It might be a good indication! I like Kenisha's idea.
    I feel like DavidsBridal has that impact on a lot of people. I felt that way there but I had an immediate follower appointment at another boutique and my mom helped me stick to my guns and say I would think about the dresses from DB. my dress was at the next place and it was the first one I tried on. Everything after that, I just wanted to put the first one back on! Lol
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  • Shaureeka
    Devoted June 2019
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    I would definitely go back and say yes again to the dress of your dreams. The one pictured is GORGEOUS if that's it. You can change your mind as much as you want until you feel sure
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  • sydney
    Devoted September 2019
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    I think Im going to call Davids bridal to cancel my layaway and on the plus side the bridal shop that ive been going to first is having a 30% black Friday sale and I have my appointment made for that day. The dress is cheaper than the one at Davids Bridal and has way more of what I want out of a dress. The one at Davids Bridal the more I look at it the more I dont like it.


    This is the one I choose compared the the one I posted which is the one I keep going back to.

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  • sydney
    Devoted September 2019
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    Yes it is so beautiful!!! I literally have not stopped thinking about this dress since the moment I tried it on Smiley love

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  • Chandra
    Master May 2019
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    I definitely think the first one is the one for you! Your face lights up completely differently in the other photos and it is a GORGEOUS fit on you!
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  • Kyla
    Dedicated November 2019
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    I think a dress that you cant stop thinking about means that it is The One. I was pressured into my dress because I went shopping with my mom and sisters. Two months later, I went back to the store with only my maid of honor & tried on different gowns. Turns out that I **really** loved the dress because I was comparing it to everyone I tried on. Sounds like you already know which dress is The One.Smiley love

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  • Catjam
    Expert October 2018
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    I agree, you look happier in the first dress. Both are beautiful, but go with your heart and good luck!
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  • sydney
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    I just feel magical in that dress and like nothing else can top that dress !!!!!!

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  • sydney
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    My heart is telling me the first dress Smiley heart

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  • sydney
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    Im glad im not the only one!!

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  • Lady.ghoulica
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    Are these photos of the one you said yes to, or the one you keep thinking about?


    I think it's very normal to feel dress regrets. I've read many similar stories on here about it, including myself. I bought a cheap dress too early and it just wasn't bridal enough and didn't fit right since I bought it online. I ended up buying a second dress and by the time my wedding came, I was able to fit more comfortably in the first dress I bought and wore it for my reception and saved money on not bustling my second dress.

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  • Lady.ghoulica
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    Oh yes, the first one you posted is so much more magnificent than this one. And I can tell your smile looks forced! Totally go with your gut on this.

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  • sydney
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    The photos of the lace dress is the dress I keep thinking about!

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  • sydney
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    I feel like my smile on the first dress is a genuine "I feel amazing" smile

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  • I
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    The one that you can't stop thinking about will be on my mind all day! Lol it's beautiful!!!
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  • sydney
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    Omg thank you Smiley shame

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  • MIWM
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    Make another appointment and go by yourself. Your opinion is the only one that matters.

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  • Kodi
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    That's why I went with my mom & one friends so other opinions wouldn't mess with my own, I love the dress you posted and if you can't stop thinking about it go back!!

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