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Just Said Yes September 2019

Changing Wedding Date

Erika, on April 4, 2019 at 7:04 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 11
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Hello All,
I need some advise on changing my wedding date. I haved planned my wedding to be on Sept 27. I've booked my church and had a venue. Do to some unforeseen events, my wedding venue recently suffered some fire damage. They had contacted me and let know that they are not sure if they will be up and running by my wedding date. Almost all the venues in my area are booked (that are within my budget). There is 1 place that I love and within my budget but I would need to change my date to the 28th. I have already sent out my Save the dates. So I guess my question is, is this an okay thing to do? It's 1 day later and we do have out of state guests. Any advise welcomed!!

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Latest activity by Clíodhna, on May 30, 2019 at 12:51 PM
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    Just Said Yes September 2019
    Erika ·
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    I'll be moving it from a Friday to a Saturday.
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  • MOB So Cal
    January 2019
    MOB So Cal ·
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    That sounds like a great option. I'd just send the information out to guests as soon as it is confirmed (depending on how many people you're talking about, I might call them to help ensure that everyone gets the message, but you can also use email/text/etc.). Hopefully, anyone who was planning to be there on Friday would still be in town on Saturday; if not, maybe they can change their reservations. Sorry this happened, but it sounds like a great Plan B has presented itself! Smiley heart

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  • SummerBrideInAutumn
    VIP October 2019
    SummerBrideInAutumn ·
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    It sucks that this happened, but as long as you like the new venue just as much (or maybe even more) than the old venue, it could be a blessing in disguise. Most people prefer Saturday weddings over Friday. If your guests were going to be able to come into town for a Fri wedding, a Sat wedding might make it even easier for them. I say jump on that venue that has the 28th open!
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  • Thea
    Dedicated August 2019
    Thea ·
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    I think you're far enough out that pushing it one day shouldn't be a huge inconvenience to most people - I would just communicate the change ASAP. Sorry you're dealing with this stress!

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  • Summerbride77
    VIP July 2019
    Summerbride77 ·
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    With these circustances, I think it okay. I would just start calling your guests after to book to explain the situation and update them on the date.

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  • Bridget
    Devoted October 2019
    Bridget ·
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    If you explain to your guests the reason for the change I’m sure it’s fine. You’re still just shy of 6 months. It’s not like you just Willy nilly changed your mind. People will understand- those not out of town might be happier with a Saturday instead of Friday.
    How about your other vendors though?
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    Just Said Yes September 2019
    Erika ·
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    Thank you for all your advise! I've contacted most of my venders (catering, rentals, etc). They could accommodate the date change. The 1 vendor that haven't gotten back me is the photographer (important). Fingers crossed that they are open. I'm just stressed because we had booked our reception venue way in advance and it took us forever to find one that fit our budget. Hoping the photographers can change because idk what I'm going to do. There are some venues open but they are so expensive.
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  • Jordan
    Expert September 2019
    Jordan ·
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    Sounds okay to me. It’s only 1 day and Saturday weddings are usually more convenient. I’d be sure to highlight the date change on your site or in the invitation. Or maybe just a text. September 28 is a great day for a wedding!
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  • Gen
    Champion June 2019
    Gen ·
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    I think that’s fine but I’d send out a “change the date” card ASAP!

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  • Danielle
    Master June 2019
    Danielle ·
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    I think it's okay to move the date by one day, but I would personally reach out to all of the guests you sent STDs to and let them know of the change as soon as possible.

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  • Clíodhna
    WeddingWire Administrator January 2030
    Clíodhna ·
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    Were you able to change the photographer, Erika?

    Have you officially change the date?

    Hope you got it resolved!

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